Describe incidents where someone flirted with you.

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Most of the promiscous girls at my HS are either lesbians{who I have no problem with} or freshmen who mistake me for a senior {I'm a junior} who think that I can protect them, which is not the case! I do not get hit on as much anymore but if I do, I tap into my inner Jason Bourne and run to my quiet spot where I can analyze the situation.

I find it very embarrasing when I get hit on because most of the time I have no idea what they are saying but I find it really annoying when the promiscous try to hit on me because I'm a junior & they are mostly freshmen "testing the waters." Sometimes, I bite but create a total ass of myself.

Once while on a camp for a theatre production in Sydney, this extremely attractive girl came to me during the night and crawled in the bed with me. She asked me if it was ok if she slid into bed with me, meanwhile I was wondering what the heck she was thinking. Of course I said yes like a perfect gentleman . After a minute or two though she got bored of my lack of action and left.

I didn't realise she was flirting with me until much later when the gay guy who was sleeping in the bunk next to me told me. That was after an extended session where he flirted with me, by the way - I guess he thought my inaction in the earlier encounter meant that I was more ripe for his picking.

I hate this flirting stuff because you never can't be sure that they're really flirting or just looking at something or thinking or whatever. I want certainty!
Once a girl, I was interested in and who I had been watching a lot lately, on a party asked me to dance, but I am not a dancing person (why move your body awkwardly and sensessly in the first place? Always reminds me of african tribe rituals [i have nothing against africans, ok]), so I said no, and asked if she wanted to play chess instead (i later realized how stupid i had been). Well, she obviously went away

get it all the time, but social mores are much more different in brasil than in the states (dont know about europe, other places).. heres its very common for both men and women to receive mash notes while at a bar.. flirting is very common.. even if your are drinking, or walking with someone, they will still make sure you notice.. pisses my wife off to no end.. once in rio, i was drinking with an ex-girlfriend, and this other girl just sat down at our table and said i should leave my date their and go out with her...

I had a girl, while we sat on her couch, ask 'outloud' to god, I guess: "Come on, flirt." She kept asking me what I wanted to do - Was I supposed to say 'kiss you?' I figured if I did that she would have kicked my ass out. Low and behold, we didn't do anything.

I asked her out - this is MY sign that I like you but apparently I have to keep touching and whistling like a moron to keep them..

Well...there was this one time where a female commented on my glasses by stating they were cute. Does that count?

I had no idea what flirting even was until about two years ago (when I was 20), when an online friend of mine explained it to me. For me, the explanation was just stunning. I simply had no idea what it even was before then. I honestly had no idea that people even did things like that.

Prior to this explanation, an attractive girl had in fact been trying to talk to me in a class, shook my hand (saying "nice to meet you, smile"), and seemed to like getting close to me for some unknown reason. I honestly had no clue what it was all about until my online friend explained it to me a couple weeks later. Of course, I unknowingly brushed the girl off so nothing came of it. Thinking back on it, there were other instances too, where girls were flirting with me, but I of course really, really brushed them off (either completely ignoring them, or even asking them why they were talking to me (poor girls, lol)).

There have been some girls who have tried flirting with me since I learned what flirting is, but they were girls who I had no romantic feelings for (they were "not my type").

I am angry that I didn't know what this was. Someone should have explained it to me sooner, or realized that I had a problem. Before getting lost in the crowd at a giant public university, I grew up in a small private fundamentalist school and there were absolutely no real counselors or anything at all. The "counselors" were actually just youth pastors who knew nothing of psychology or anything really (besides their sect of Christianity, and pretending to be teenagers).

This isn't exactly flirting, but it's the closest I've had.
I can't help but notice a girl in my class keep staring in my direction. Of course, being the Aspie that I am, I avoid the eye contact and watch her in the corner of my eye to see if she's still doing it.
One would say that she's merely daydreaming but she has made a few attempts to talk to me, and I am a tad anti-social in the school yard. She's friendly to me too. And I've got nothing against her at all, just curious.
Your thoughts would be appreciated.

In between classes, there is always the same brunette girl waiting for me as though I'm her master or something. She even has the nerve to follow me to GSA meetings with the same smile on her face. Whenever I am speaking, she always has to smile in a very promiscous manner at me. Although she has hit on me several times already, I have told her to stop but she keeps on trying to flirt with me. I have no idea what to do about her so your thoughts are much welcome.

Scare her away by telling her you have aspergers?

Scare her away by telling her you have aspergers?

I've tried that, it does not work.

As for you, I really do not know. If she is being friendly to you, why not try sitting with her at lunch. If her friends do not approve of you, get your ass away from her & never speak to her again. Telling her you have Aspergers will sound very awkward but it will depend on how promiscous she is & if she is, she will take it as a way to take advantage of you.

Here is another story I have to tell.
Back in February {!} I was with some of my friends at a LGBT convention. The student leader{named Spencer} & I went to a tango workshop where there were a lot of gay & bi students. During the actual dancing, Nick, a gay guy kept trying to get me to dance with him. I told him to back off & dance with Spencer. After a few attempts to get rid of him, I grabbed my stuff and ditched the workshop, pretending I needed to piss. We ran into each other at a PFLAG convention in April but he did not recognize me.

He has been emailing me every other week since April. I have told him that I am not gay & that I have a GF, which I do not. Your input is most welcome.

It sucks. I can't tell at all when I'm being flirted with. Of course I even have a hard time with facial expressions. The worts part is I'm 29. I need some good NT friends to go with me, and tell me if I'm being flirted with or not.

I am literally unable to tell the difference between someone flirting with me and someone just being friendly. So I always assume the latter. (It's safer that way...)