What Kind Of MAN Do You Not Want?

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Actually I love all my ex's and wish them luck with their new spouses. (Yes even my ex husband, because I own my own part in the downfall of our marriage).

I agree with everything stated so far (I think),
except for:
can't change tires
doesn't open doors for women
must not be younger than myself

I guess I would like those things, but they don't really matter.

Some big things for me:
I don't want a guy that is close-minded, religious, or that is working in a career that I find immoral.

Do you change your own tires? When I buy tires, I just let the shop change them for me.

That's why I started this one.

I do not want a man who takes everything way to seriously. I need a guy who has a good sense of humor. Preferably a sense of humor similar to mine.

I also don't want a guy who organizes my entire living space. Nor do I want a slob.

I also need a guy who likes food. I don't want a fast food addict. I want a guy who eats REAL food. Sushi, different kinds of chocolate other than Hershey brands, foreign food. Anyone catch my drift?.

Then there's video games. I want my guy and I to play games together.

A guy who likes to cook with me wouldn't be so bad either.

How come "nice guy wussbag" doesn't appear in any of the lists?

Sweaty balls?

Probably because we are all shallow and out to get them.

Religious.
Not leftist.
Highly-sexed.
Non-feminist.
Meat-eater.
Highly-social.
Fatphobic.

My dealbreakers are a guy who is
sexist
abusive
unfaithful
Puts me down
smokes, gets drunk, or does drugs
Has animals (tho a cat would be ok)
wants kids
Racist or homophobic or predjucdiced agaisnt ppl's religion
doesn't get my humor

I don't want to be anywhere near an abusive man, a manipulative man, a liar, an arrogant man, a drug user, an alcoholic, someone who dislikes children, or an unkind person.

If they are actually 'nice guy wussbags', then they don't appear on the list mainly because of the word 'nice'. However, those that tend to make themselves out to be 'nice' tend to be bitter toward women because the popular, pretty, model like woman ignores them (whilst they probably ignore the average looking nice female who is actually trying to get their attention), they don't like it and decide to hate the rest of womankind for it and paint us all out to be b*****s, and so will appear on these lists. However, as I say, those that are genuinely 'nice' will not appear in this thread. I am with a 'nice' guy, although I don't think he's 'nice', I think he's lovely and amazing.

^^ This. And also, "nice guy" and "wussbag" do not always go together. Not at all. It's the "wussbag" part that makes them a no go, not the nice part.

Not a Scubasteve!

Because for the most part, what women (and men) are largely attracted to is subconscious and thus lists are pointless.

- Abusive or has a bad temper
- Overly judgmental or critical
- No sense of humor
- Can't see through my awkwardness and appreciate my esoteric/nerdy interests
- Wants to spend every minute together and doesn't understand alone time

There's some truth in this, but it doesn't hurt to be able to recognize bad news when you see it coming.