Is he breaking up with me, or not?

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Blammo
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13 Sep 2012, 11:26 am

shyguy2012 wrote:
I kind of have the same problem. I have a friend that drunk txt and said she wanted to cuddle. I told her I would wait until she wasn't drunk. About 4 days later I txt her asking if she wanted to go to the movies she said that I am close friend and she couldn't date me. The this last week she unfriended me on facebook I sent her txt a couple of days later saying " People tend to write me off if you did its ok.." I got a txt back saying I am on date can't talk right now". So Lost now.


I would move on :) Sounds like more trouble than it is worth.



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13 Sep 2012, 12:39 pm

Sadly, some guys are jerlks and break up with girls just by avoiding them. :/ My guy cousin is this type of guy. I was asking him about how he breaks up with girls and he said he just ignores them, but he is worse, he would also just post another girl's pic as his profile pic to really send the message. Such a cruel world. I would move on even though it is very hard. Just try to do other things you enjoy or eat your favorite treat.



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13 Sep 2012, 2:08 pm

Evy7 wrote:
Sadly, some guys are jerlks and break up with girls just by avoiding them. :/ My guy cousin is this type of guy. I was asking him about how he breaks up with girls and he said he just ignores them, but he is worse, he would also just post another girl's pic as his profile pic to really send the message. Such a cruel world. I would move on even though it is very hard. Just try to do other things you enjoy or eat your favorite treat.


I'm sorry but your cousin sounds like a terrible person =\



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13 Sep 2012, 5:02 pm

Thank you, everybody. I'm still depressed as hell. I think about him all the time, and almost every little thing reminds me of him. Going onto Facebook is painful, because I go onto there sometimes in the hopes that he may have re-friended me, but no such notification awaits me. Then I look at his profile and it still says, "Add Friend." Although his "In a Relationship" status is still there, but he may have just forgotten to change that.

It's going to be hard for me to move on. I talked to a friend of mine about it today, and she said that in situations like these, telling the person to move on would be like telling an anorexic to eat a quarter-pounder.


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13 Sep 2012, 5:06 pm

It is tough to move on. It takes time and doesn't happen right away. But you have to pick up the pieces and keep going. Set a goal, go for it. I recently had a breakup which had very little to do with me, it saddened me greatly, but now I have immersed myself into bettering my life and I've decided to take up a new hobby: Boxing! :)


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