Ever had a girl who has a crush on you?

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No, and I don't mind too much until I see couples kissing or having fun together.

It used to be the same with socializing in general, but I'm too confident for that by now.

Guess I still have to learn about women

Yes, which sucks because I'm gay and have misogyny issues.

Before age 30: none, I've got few only very recently.

Maybe I should write a book, I am a phenomenal case.

Yes. I think I've mentioned before that, in my case, it was usually *years* before I figured it out. In the meantime I would remember the approaches as weird episodes that didn't make sense.

Sorry to hear that. Hope they figure this out and move on soon.

I wouldn't know. I am Aspie. I can't read the signals, unless they're extremely in-your-face blatant. She'd basically have to come and sit on my lap.

lol man i know what you mean, but it seems that if an attractive girl is attracted its alot harder to tell!

Only when it's really a bad idea for me to presue them.

In my last job one of the female chefs and a waitress fancied me.

Slept with the waitress while flirting and chatting up the chef. . . They ended up finding out I was trying to have both of them of course.


Start my new job on thursday.

I joke with everyone that I'm so hopelessly oblivious a woman could physically throw herself at me over and over and the only thing I would do is tell her how fortunate it is the I'm nearby when she s having a clumsy day. Like I've said before even my own probable Aspie father tells me I'm clueless and miss supposedly obvious signals. Then again on the oher hand everyone at work pointed out a girl was interested in me and to talk to her and I later found out she practically accused me of harassment but never said anything to me about it indicating I was unwelcome.

For further proof of my hopelessness, I had a younger woman (say about 22) start a conversation with me while I was at a take out counter. She vaguely knew who i was through work and asked questions she should already know the answer to. It took me days to clue in she might be interested and unless I see her around town she'll assume I'm not interested thanks to my inability to figure it out in time. Who knows how many opportunities I had no idea about over the years?

Haha...that would be the day, I can't imagine when the time will come when someone will look at me, let alone drool over me.

yeah, the girl im talking to currently has a crush on me. i had a rather bizarre outburst in front of her during a football game, and of it she said "i love your energy".

i like to think one did. but more than likely its just me pretending to think better of myself. So lets go with 0

Imagine the dirty thoughts she has about you

You might be in her midnight spankbank.

WHERE IS THAT DAMN BRAIN BLEACH???

Have women liked me? Sure they have but it's always been in a platonic way. At best I've been called handsome by women in their forties. Has anyone ever had a crush on me? Doubt it and if anyone did, they never told me about it.

Nope. Not that I know of.

yes. But damn stupid society prevents them to ever come up to me