Confusing Flirting With Bullying?

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TronQuixore
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21 Sep 2012, 2:11 pm

i think it totally depends on if it was saying fat as in good, or fat as in gross... i mean, i personaly dont think its safe either way



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21 Sep 2012, 2:42 pm

1000Knives wrote:
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1000 Knives: On old SNL, Eddie Murphy did a skit to rap music. He rapped "I've got the biggest butt in the neighborhood, girls like to squeeze cause it feels so good"


Happens. Just something I had to learn to embrace and not hate. It sucks, I wear usually medium shirts, but then 34-36 jeans.


I hear ya. While I wear large sized shirts due to my size,I still wear rather large pants due to my meaty waist. I here some ladies like it when the man has a larger bottom (without it being fat, which mine really isn't... it's just big ^^). Only real "advantage" I have is that the size extends on both sides of, back and front.


I measured my thighs at like 25 inches. Calves are 16 now. Almost bodybuilder like proportions for the lower body, then average proportions for the upper, ie, 13 inch biceps, like 6 inch wrists, etc.

I'm at like 18% bodyfat, I'd like to be at 10 or so, and without gaining more muscle, I'd be at like 180ish lbs from 195 now at 5'9. I broke the BMI scale, I'm apparently a 28.6 BMI while most people think I'm "skinny." To get to a 25, I'd have to be 6% bodyfat.


This is why I put alot of effort in developing a good upper body... to match my already wide lower body. Now, I am quite happy with how I look, but don't expect miracles: If you are a big butt boy, you will always be. I am at around 8% bodyfat with BMI of 26.1, and I still have a large bottom (I have to admit, though, that I have been focusing on hamstrings and gluteus maximus again recently, since I need more strength in my legs and butt to support my ever-growing torso.)



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21 Sep 2012, 3:18 pm

With this talk about buts & name calling I'm going post this American Dad clip

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y6MytEoYjXo[/youtube]


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21 Sep 2012, 4:04 pm

starryeyedvoyager wrote:
1000Knives wrote:
starryeyedvoyager wrote:
1000Knives wrote:
Aspinator wrote:
1000 Knives: On old SNL, Eddie Murphy did a skit to rap music. He rapped "I've got the biggest butt in the neighborhood, girls like to squeeze cause it feels so good"


Happens. Just something I had to learn to embrace and not hate. It sucks, I wear usually medium shirts, but then 34-36 jeans.


I hear ya. While I wear large sized shirts due to my size,I still wear rather large pants due to my meaty waist. I here some ladies like it when the man has a larger bottom (without it being fat, which mine really isn't... it's just big ^^). Only real "advantage" I have is that the size extends on both sides of, back and front.


I measured my thighs at like 25 inches. Calves are 16 now. Almost bodybuilder like proportions for the lower body, then average proportions for the upper, ie, 13 inch biceps, like 6 inch wrists, etc.

I'm at like 18% bodyfat, I'd like to be at 10 or so, and without gaining more muscle, I'd be at like 180ish lbs from 195 now at 5'9. I broke the BMI scale, I'm apparently a 28.6 BMI while most people think I'm "skinny." To get to a 25, I'd have to be 6% bodyfat.


This is why I put alot of effort in developing a good upper body... to match my already wide lower body. Now, I am quite happy with how I look, but don't expect miracles: If you are a big butt boy, you will always be. I am at around 8% bodyfat with BMI of 26.1, and I still have a large bottom (I have to admit, though, that I have been focusing on hamstrings and gluteus maximus again recently, since I need more strength in my legs and butt to support my ever-growing torso.)


Well for me, I just train the hams and glutes the most, because of my sport (figure skating) not a ton of upper body is really needed. Maybe if I do pairs it'd be a different story, and it might be more likely I'd end up a pair skater at my weight and size.



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21 Sep 2012, 5:15 pm

not confusing with bullying perse, but i do often read flirting as a sign of desinterest and disgust.
i stopped counting the times that i left a girl alone becouse "that's obviously what she wants", only to be asked afterwards why i didn't go for it, when she could not have been obvious without taking her clothes off...