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Zodai
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03 Oct 2012, 2:17 am

Well, the closest thing I can ask is...

Does she know about the AS?

If she doesn't think you're noticing; then chances are she'll just stop liking you if she does. If she at least knows there's a reason for partial ignoring; then chances are she won't be turned off by what is perceived as a "lack of emotion" (Which we all know is an inaccurate description)



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03 Oct 2012, 6:39 am

Whatever she dishes out I give back to her and we both laugh and smile about it. There's no lack of emotion there at all. :) But she doesn't know about my AS, and neither does the other girl.


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03 Oct 2012, 12:28 pm

I just wonder how this is going to play out seeing as how two people at your job seem interested in you!



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03 Oct 2012, 3:36 pm

I don't know how it'll play out either. I went to see the one girl, the bagger, at her other job today. We had a lot of fun (where she works at as a second job, the management sucks and the store is dead all the time, and they let their employees basically run wild). When we were discussing plans for hanging out, she suggested we bring another friend (a mutual friend who is one of my best friends, he's also the other guy who likes her). I dunno why. Maybe she likes him. But she never really mentioned him that much. I ended up staying at that store for 3 hours just BS-ing around with her. It was pretty fun.

Then the cashier, I added her on Facebook this morning, and she basically accepted the request right away and the playful comments started. But they didn't last long. And I found out the reason she doesn't work that much is because she is going to college 2 hours away from here. So I had the thought that maybe I should go for the bagger instead, but I'm not sure because of what happened earlier.


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03 Oct 2012, 3:45 pm

Bagger friendzoned you by inviting 3rd person.


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03 Oct 2012, 3:55 pm

Blammo wrote:
Bagger friendzoned you by inviting 3rd person.


I figured lol.


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