Virgins over 30

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relationships are about finding someone you love. walks around the block and nights on the couch are free. It's not like doing those activities with a partner will be less exciting than any activities the person would do alone..so why not enjoy doing it with a partner as well.

I don't think I would ever consider financial situation as relevant to whether someone is suitable for a relationship. Surely most people don't - there's plenty of poor people who feel just fine about getting into a relationship! It's not going to be a certainty anyway - what if you got into a relationship and your circumstances changed? You'd not end it, would you? Just like health, looks, everything. It's about accepting a person, not their current circumstances.

Some people are attracted to money and might only settle for a person with money. They're not generally held up as the model for good relationships. I can see that it's an advantage to have cash to spend when dating, just as having money makes most things in life easier. And perhaps it could lead to awkardness if two people were trying to date and their financial situations were mismatched - people often gravitate towards those in their class, for many reasons, mostly cultural, but being used to a similar lifestyle may be one factor too.

But if someone wants to be with you they're not going to want you to stay away because you're not earning enough. Why would you do that?

at the time, i met a 35 or 36 year old guy who was still a virgin, never dated, if i were him, i would have gone to a hooker, escort ages ago, also, i probably would have killed myself a long time ago too

I'm 30, but still not interested really in the escort option. I'd rather have someone want me for me. But since this person hasn't shown up, in 30 years, I'm really losing hope.

im 23 and know what you mean man..plus i am disgusted enough knowing that any potential gf has had a bf before..no way would f**k a girl who had a dick in her 5 minutes prior.

Last edited by wtfid2 on 27 Oct 2012, 8:55 pm, edited 1 time in total.

hey. At least your not at risk for aids. (as long as your not a drug user)

i don't really care if a girl is a virgin or not

That's a good point. People always pretend that STDs don't exist when discussing subjects like this one.

Er, that's why we have condoms? It's a non-issue, and what's the all hate for drug users? Drugs are pretty common these days, I drink coffee everyday?

Well countless numbers of people contract them all the time(everyday). And it still sounds super-scary with a condom if you knew they had an STD beforehand, but then again you never know beforehand which is why people pretend they don't exist in the first place.

i hate the cards i was dealt with for being male

Me too. Being an Aspie male is like a death sentence for dating. I have a masters degree and am applying for my doctorate soon. Yet I can't talk to a woman to save my life.

I also get major unrequited love issues, oneitis, crushes, whatever you want to call it.

I wasn't always 30 though. I wonder why no one came along when I was in college and more social, at 22-23 years of age

Why should it matter if she were a virgin? I really don't care about that. Also, that's pretty sexist.

I didnt say she had to be a virgin. i just said it disgusts m that other penis and been there. I am interested in vagina not penis. I want my mouth/dic on vagina not penis. I s t as if a ma cums on a plat. you can wash the plate as many times as you want but i wont at food fro it.

it's only sexist bc im straight and obviously dont want a male virgin.

Last edited by wtfid2 on 28 Oct 2012, 7:12 pm, edited 1 time in total.

I'd rather be a virgin then have no social life (which I currently don't have).

Woman to me, should always come a distant second in happiness...since having a good social life/career is what should bee important for male (and female) Aspies.

birth defects are far more common in males than in females, i guess that means mental defects are more common in males than females too