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11 Nov 2012, 2:08 pm

Duncan wrote:

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Duncan- I dont really think girls flirt with me all the time, its just a coincedence that these 2 incidents happend within a 30 day period.

It would still be worth learning how girls flirt for your piece of mind so maybe you take action next time.

That is true, although by taking action, that is something i have no idea how to do , im bad at conversating in the first place, sure i can learn what to say or how to respond, but that is different than carrying on a conversation for a few minutes when I have no idea what the topic may be about, im bad at the small talk. thanks anyway though.

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11 Nov 2012, 2:10 pm

Greatsharkbite wrote:

Yep, just being friendly. Cashiers nowadays try and suggest items or even specials that the store has. If they're good at their job they're nice about it. If thats flirting my gf was being flirted with right in front of my face whilst the cashier mentioned she had a boyfriend.

Flirting is hard to deduce from cashiers, if they don't work on commission they work on credit, customer compliments get them promoted/raises, etc. Or just builds good rapport so they themselves have a pleasant work experience.

A few things; it was not the cashier , it was the girl who bags the groceries. And also, yes that cashier was in fact flirting with your GF if he asked her about a boyfriend.

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11 Nov 2012, 2:12 pm

BanjoGirl wrote:

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Duncan- I dont really think girls flirt with me all the time, its just a coincedence that these 2 incidents happend within a 30 day period.

To everyone else; yes she was the bagging groceries girl, she was sweet and kind, but when a girl talks to me its a big suprise, nobody ever talks to me lol. Maybe that is why i notice these things. Im not sure where you all live, but i live near Los Angeles, and people tend to be caught up in their work or thinking of other things, when people are friendly to you, then you take notice, im sure where all of you live people tend to be a little more friendlier, just a thought.

Yes, when all the people around you are angry and stressed, you pay attention if someone is kind to you. It's disconcerting in a good way. It doesn't matter if they do that because it's part of their job or not, it's nice.

I know what you mean about disconcerting in a good way, its like , wow some people really are nice out there.

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11 Nov 2012, 2:14 pm

Plodder wrote:

No, she was just making conversation.

The question is, why was she making conversation with me? I should have stood there and see if she acted friendly with the other customers, i dont believe she said anything to the person before me, hmm.

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11 Nov 2012, 4:25 pm

ANicL wrote:

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No, she was just making conversation.

Did the person before you get pumpkin pie?

Have to agree with the other ones here; she probably wasn't flirting with you. But there is a possibility that she used the pie as a conversation starter.

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12 Nov 2012, 12:09 am

ANicL wrote:

Im at the checkout and she is bagging my groceries

Duncan wrote:

was she the checkout worker or a fellow customer ?

Nope.

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12 Nov 2012, 3:30 am

ValentineWiggin wrote:

ANicL wrote:

Im at the checkout and she is bagging my groceries

Duncan wrote:

was she the checkout worker or a fellow customer ?

Nope.

Im just trying to think of something more uninteresting to start a random conversation about pumpkin pie is not a very interesting item to buy at a market, i mean she kind of went out of her way to try and chat with me, even if the moment was brief. Maybe if id bought some Q-tips and she still found a way to conversate with me about that, then that must really mean she was showing interest in me and flirting with me?

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12 Nov 2012, 4:32 pm

ok a lot of reponses from people. jeez. i get the feeling the women want only one night stands. it sucks. i get that a whole lot with having to hear sob stories. oh well my ex. i don't need to hear that garbage. god.

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12 Nov 2012, 8:18 pm

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ok a lot of reponses from people. jeez. i get the feeling the women want only one night stands. it sucks. i get that a whole lot with having to hear sob stories. oh well my ex. i don't need to hear that garbage. god.

Ehm... only two pages with people talking about a girl who bags a pumpkin pie and you get the feeling that women only want one night stands?

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12 Nov 2012, 9:35 pm

Take it for what it is: She's a friendly person, probably not generally speaking but she was to you. Share a smile with her and just let it improve your day and hers too. Its a rarity these days.

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13 Nov 2012, 4:04 pm

She was probably trying to be nice to you, don't make a big deal out of it.

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