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26 Nov 2012, 8:48 pm

ManicDan wrote:

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in all honesty i dont classify people by a checklist of what is good and what is bad.

most of these are not really detailed things though, just abstract overall features. when i browse profiles on okc, theres many different kinds of people i am willing to message, but theres a few things that have to be there if theres going to be any level of attraction.

i know, but for example I dont really go looking for specific things to get to that point. Nor is there much of a common denominator.

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26 Nov 2012, 8:58 pm

MXH wrote:

ManicDan wrote:

MXH wrote:

in all honesty i dont classify people by a checklist of what is good and what is bad.

i know, but for example I dont really go looking for specific things to get to that point. Nor is there much of a common denominator.

Same. Usually 3 from a huge list seals the deal

or 3 from an equally long list of bad ones breaks it!

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27 Nov 2012, 2:30 am

Honesty.

I can't think of any others that are strictly necessary.

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27 Nov 2012, 2:35 am

Loyalty.
Intelligence with a touch of arrogance.
Cute looks, so I don't have to rethink my life when waking up next to her.

Bonus prize for loving video games~

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27 Nov 2012, 3:51 am

Maybe I should have asked which 3, people wouldn't tolerate then.

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27 Nov 2012, 4:00 am

Stupidity
Stupidity
Stupidity

There.

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27 Nov 2012, 5:45 am

aspiesandra27 wrote:

Maybe I should have asked which 3, people wouldn't tolerate then.

No, your question is ok, but there are always people that have to say something against. They can't ignore the thread that they don't find interesting, they need to criticize it.

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27 Nov 2012, 6:05 am

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Wit, kindness and loyalty.

Boom! Right there. Those 3 easily take my top spots - no question. Bonus points for linguistic, musical and/or artistic talents.

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27 Nov 2012, 6:14 am

Spa bath
Candles
Vodka

No wait...

Wisdom
Integrity
Humour

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27 Nov 2012, 6:49 am

BlueMax wrote:

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Wit, kindness and loyalty.

Boom! Right there. Those 3 easily take my top spots - no question. Bonus points for linguistic, musical and/or artistic talents.

Yes, creativity and talent are always a bonus

A lot of people don't appreciate the imagination and curiosity that comes with talent.

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27 Nov 2012, 1:56 pm

Thank you BanjoGirl, for saying that my question was OK. I don't think some people realise how hurtful they can be at times, even if unintentionally. One thing I thought when joining this site, was that we all had one thing in common (AS), and that solidarity would prevail. Many of us were bullied in the past, and although I am *not* saying some comments are bullying, they are nonetheless hurtful as they seem to point out the flaws we already know we possess.

I am all for "If you have nothing nice to say, then say nothing at all". I will point out that I am not perfect in any shape or form and if I ever hurt anyone unintentionally, I will be the first one to apologise. I dread causing anyone pain or discomfort.

Thanks to all that posted anything to any of the threads I started. It has been such a helpful experience to hear everyone's points of views on different matters (although I am yet to venture outside the love and dating section. It's my aspie negativity of trying out new things). :roll:

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27 Nov 2012, 2:15 pm

aspiesandra27 wrote:

It has been such a helpful experience to hear everyone's points of views on different matters (although I am yet to venture outside the love and dating section. It's my aspie negativity of trying out new things). :roll:

You are very welcome

Here in Love and Dating we have rude comments practically every day. This is why I don't speak about my love life here anymore. As you, I had enough bullying and rudeness at school

I can understand a bit of rudeness against mean people, but not against nice people, and you are very nice and well-mannered. I hope you stay on WP!

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29 Nov 2012, 2:07 pm

BanjoGirl wrote:

aspiesandra27 wrote:

You are very welcome

Here in Love and Dating we have rude comments practically every day. This is why I don't speak about my love life here anymore. As you, I had enough bullying and rudeness at school

I can understand a bit of rudeness against mean people, but not against nice people, and you are very nice and well-mannered. I hope you stay on WP!

Well said BanjoGirl and I agree..Hope you stick around.

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