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I would only progress with pursuing someone if they gave me a green light hence if I ask a person out and they say 'no' = no green light = stop pursuit - this would be my method

If on the other hand they said 'Oh, I'm not free that day but I am free on this day instead' that would be a green light = continue pursuit

But obviously you are free to do as you please, it's only one person's viewpoint

I didn't say you were a bully, I am assuming you know her quite well and she likes you as a person and hence is ok with seeing you socially

Some people do get lucky with continuing the pursuit in spite of an ambiguous response, I'm just saying how I do things - I am a cautious person, keen not to make a fool of myself; others are more open to chance

People tend to develop methods and if they get success using these methods they continue using them

My method has worked well for me - that's all I can say

The obvious way to find out for sure would be to say 'Can you see us going out as a couple at some point or do you think we will always be just friends'?

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aTfg1I1YWLY[/youtube]NT women like playing mind game hence!The video hehe. 95% of the time though women prefer the friends thing 45% start off as friends then something happens and become friends with benefits 25% of the friends with benefits stage eventually leads to a full fledge relationship due to emotional attachment by both parties while the remainder of the percentile either just stay as friends with benefits or think that went weird and break it off and be friends.The remaining 55% as stated in the beginning want to just get to know eachother as friends and over time attachment grows they go on a few dates and if they still really like eachother things work out and its official they are bf and gf.

My initial response to the question would have been:
It's a 'date' for one, and 'just hanging out with a friend or acquaintance' for the other.

And if that is the case, would that matter?

If everything went well, then I'm going to assume that she is interested. Is she still contacting you often?

Several members have been doing the same sort of thing for a while in threads they werent fond off, it was only time before it caught on and most people did the same.

Theres nothing in the rules against it so shes free to post her impressions of your posts until it becomes a way of harassment.
If one post stating someone´s impressions that werent good was to be considered harassment wed have no members on this section because all of us have been guilty of this at some point