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10 Jan 2013, 10:16 pm

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I like the term Nice Guy because it is a self-applied label of all the Nice Guys I've ever encountered.


If a guy is actually nice, he generally doesn't have to point it out for people to be aware of it.


I as someone many have called a nice guy (in a non bad way) feel this term can paint me in a bad light when ive done nothing to deserve that



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11 Jan 2013, 2:20 am

This thread is for the Nice Girl, people.



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11 Jan 2013, 2:34 am

I don't get why males and females who are actually 'nice' aren't called 'nice' and that the word nice in the dating context has such a negative implication. I say maybe nice people should take the word back so people that are actually more mean than nice aren't called nice girls, or nice guys.


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11 Jan 2013, 2:51 am

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I don't get why males and females who are actually 'nice' aren't called 'nice' and that the word nice in the dating context has such a negative implication. I say maybe nice people should take the word back so people that are actually more mean than nice aren't called nice girls, or nice guys.


http://www.quickmeme.com/Nice-Guy-tm/?upcoming

Because it's so frequently the self-applied label of creeps that it's a meme.


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11 Jan 2013, 2:52 am

And Boo is reacting to the Nice Guy threads that sometimes pop up on this sub-forum.


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11 Jan 2013, 3:02 am

nah hes been whining about females for a while now



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11 Jan 2013, 3:09 am

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nah hes been whining about females for a while now


I am not a whiner.



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11 Jan 2013, 3:10 am

This seems like a response to the Nice Guy thread that's going on.


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11 Jan 2013, 3:15 am

Sometimes my friends and I whine about straight girls who flirt with us just to see if we'll take the bait, it's kind of like they want to confirm that they are attractive.

http://www.soslang.com/term/sport-fishing


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11 Jan 2013, 3:16 am

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This seems like a response to the Nice Guy thread that's going on.




inspired from it, not a response.


You are trying soooo hard to judge my intention.

Worry not, I don't feel The Nice Guy hits a nerve in me because I am neither a nice guy nor a Nice Guy; I am an as*hole jerk ;).



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11 Jan 2013, 3:28 am

The post you quoted was meant to be in response to SurfMan pointing out your endless whining about females.

It's OK, whatever your intentions are. I am also an as*hole and a jerk. Where's the thread discussing as*holes and jerks? I feel as though we've been overlooked.


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11 Jan 2013, 3:50 am

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The post you quoted was meant to be in response to SurfMan pointing out your endless whining about females.

It's OK, whatever your intentions are. I am also an as*hole and a jerk. Where's the thread discussing as*holes and jerks? I feel as though we've been overlooked.


You and Surfman are simply...wrong.

I don't endlessly whine about females, I had moments of complaining but whining is not my trait. Stop trying to insult me by labeling me as whiner.



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11 Jan 2013, 3:54 am

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Common Characteristics of Nice Girl™:

- She's always a single girl: Taken and married girls simply don't exhibit Nice Girl™ behaviour regardless if they were one in the past or not.
- She's usually very picky when it comes to dating the opposite sex.
- They usually LOVE "stereotypically attractive male qualities" such as muscularity, wealth, arrogant confidence ...etc while hating much "stereotypically unattractive male qualities" such as shyness, introvertness, skinniness..etc
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that sound like the type of single girls, I talk to alot.


Well I must be a "Nice Girl" then, because I LOVE muscularity, arrogant confidence (which I have myself), although the man of my affections is rather shy.

And yes, I AM picky when it comes to the opposite sex, and hell, even the same sex for that matter. I want to make sure that my chosen partner is right for me. I'm sorry, but if I don't find you attractive (physically or otherwise), I'm not going to date you. I'll quite happily be friends, provided you don't treat me like I'm the scum of the earth for daring to not like you the way you like me.


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11 Jan 2013, 4:02 am

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billiscool wrote:
Common Characteristics of Nice Girl™:

- She's always a single girl: Taken and married girls simply don't exhibit Nice Girl™ behaviour regardless if they were one in the past or not.
- She's usually very picky when it comes to dating the opposite sex.
- They usually LOVE "stereotypically attractive male qualities" such as muscularity, wealth, arrogant confidence ...etc while hating much "stereotypically unattractive male qualities" such as shyness, introvertness, skinniness..etc
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that sound like the type of single girls, I talk to alot.


Well I must be a "Nice Girl" then, because I LOVE muscularity, arrogant confidence (which I have myself), although the man of my affections is rather shy.

And yes, I AM picky when it comes to the opposite sex, and hell, even the same sex for that matter. I want to make sure that my chosen partner is right for me. I'm sorry, but if I don't find you attractive (physically or otherwise), I'm not going to date you. I'll quite happily be friends, provided you don't treat me like I'm the scum of the earth for daring to not like you the way you like me.



You've just quoted the common characteristics without the definition, those characterisics are not what define a Nice Girl. Besides, do you exihibit hatred/disgust toward the other types? Do you make friends with guys you find attractive too? if no and then yes then you are not a Nice Girl.



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11 Jan 2013, 4:06 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Kezzstar wrote:
billiscool wrote:
Common Characteristics of Nice Girl™:

- She's always a single girl: Taken and married girls simply don't exhibit Nice Girl™ behaviour regardless if they were one in the past or not.
- She's usually very picky when it comes to dating the opposite sex.
- They usually LOVE "stereotypically attractive male qualities" such as muscularity, wealth, arrogant confidence ...etc while hating much "stereotypically unattractive male qualities" such as shyness, introvertness, skinniness..etc
------------------------------------------
that sound like the type of single girls, I talk to alot.


Well I must be a "Nice Girl" then, because I LOVE muscularity, arrogant confidence (which I have myself), although the man of my affections is rather shy.

And yes, I AM picky when it comes to the opposite sex, and hell, even the same sex for that matter. I want to make sure that my chosen partner is right for me. I'm sorry, but if I don't find you attractive (physically or otherwise), I'm not going to date you. I'll quite happily be friends, provided you don't treat me like I'm the scum of the earth for daring to not like you the way you like me.



You've just quoted the common characteristics without the definition, those characterisics are not what define a Nice Girl. Besides, do you exihibit hatred/disgust toward the other types? Do you make friends with guys you find attractive? if no and then yes then you are not a Nice Girl.


I make friends with everybody, especially recently with my involvement with footy, people (good and bad) seem to gravitate towards me. I just get sick of the blokes who think because I like guys who take care of their bodies (and I've dated someone who didn't, believe me it sucked!) and their lives means I'm "shallow". And I have been known to show disgust to the other types, mainly when they've whinged about their characteristic and refuse to do anything about it...


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11 Jan 2013, 4:11 am

Kezzstar wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Kezzstar wrote:
billiscool wrote:
Common Characteristics of Nice Girl™:

- She's always a single girl: Taken and married girls simply don't exhibit Nice Girl™ behaviour regardless if they were one in the past or not.
- She's usually very picky when it comes to dating the opposite sex.
- They usually LOVE "stereotypically attractive male qualities" such as muscularity, wealth, arrogant confidence ...etc while hating much "stereotypically unattractive male qualities" such as shyness, introvertness, skinniness..etc
------------------------------------------
that sound like the type of single girls, I talk to alot.


Well I must be a "Nice Girl" then, because I LOVE muscularity, arrogant confidence (which I have myself), although the man of my affections is rather shy.

And yes, I AM picky when it comes to the opposite sex, and hell, even the same sex for that matter. I want to make sure that my chosen partner is right for me. I'm sorry, but if I don't find you attractive (physically or otherwise), I'm not going to date you. I'll quite happily be friends, provided you don't treat me like I'm the scum of the earth for daring to not like you the way you like me.



You've just quoted the common characteristics without the definition, those characterisics are not what define a Nice Girl. Besides, do you exihibit hatred/disgust toward the other types? Do you make friends with guys you find attractive? if no and then yes then you are not a Nice Girl.


I make friends with everybody, especially recently with my involvement with footy, people (good and bad) seem to gravitate towards me. I just get sick of the blokes who think because I like guys who take care of their bodies (and I've dated someone who didn't, believe me it sucked!) and their lives means I'm "shallow". And I have been known to show disgust to the other types, mainly when they've whinged about their characteristic and refuse to do anything about it...


Then you are A Shallow Girl TM, not Nice Girl TM - you tend to only socialize with cool-looking people, this is a totally different case.



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