Women always ignore me if they call/text while I'm asleep?

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MCalavera
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20 Jan 2013, 8:08 am

Yeah, just don't care.



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20 Jan 2013, 8:35 am

I'm just going to flake on women from now on. You treat a woman like dirt and they will stick to you like mud right? Sad but true. I already flaked on this one beautiful woman tonight because she has been calling me handsome and telling me she wants to hangout for about a week, but she keeps telling me how she is uninterested in anything sex related? She tells me I'm so handsome and wants to date me...yet doesn't want to even kiss? Sounds pretty hypocritical to me. I will be flaking on her every chance I get.


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21 Jan 2013, 3:12 am

I think the problem is that her anxiety is not soothed until she gets the message from you that says, "Oh hey, sorry I was asleep." During those 3 hours she didn't hear back, her imagination could have been running wild with all sorts of explanations, none of which were as predictable as being asleep. Obviously, this isn't your fault, but this might help explain her motivation.

She was probably surprised that you were asleep in the afternoon, and just didn't think about reasonable explanations like being sick. If she hasn't replied yet, she might be embarrassed that she made a big deal out of it at all and is trying to play it cool.



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21 Jan 2013, 3:16 am

It may also depend on what he messaged her.

Did you come off as all desperate and apologetic about it? That might be a factor.



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21 Jan 2013, 4:02 am

A girl I was dating saw me once online and not texting her and she was like "Who are you chatting with?"
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