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MrEGuy
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25 Jan 2013, 2:30 pm

aspiemike wrote:
OP. It sounds as if you came along a possible solution in your original post but may not see it clearly. I think the solution is to find a way to not allow anyone to be a distraction for you. I know that is a solution considering my history.


In fairness, the easiest way to do that is to go back to being a hermit.



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25 Jan 2013, 2:32 pm

MrEGuy wrote:
aspiemike wrote:
OP. It sounds as if you came along a possible solution in your original post but may not see it clearly. I think the solution is to find a way to not allow anyone to be a distraction for you. I know that is a solution considering my history.


In fairness, the easiest way to do that is to go back to being a hermit.


Not exactly. Just set a guideline to follow by and try not to stray too far away from it.
Edited- Obviously you know your boundaries. You may find some others along the way. That's what I am trying to explain here.