What type of people from the opposite gender do you usually

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I am finding that a lot of people who like to travel a lot. But recently I am finding that it appears to be extroverted social butterflies who like to drink quite a bit in social gatherings and might be extremely flirtatious with me. These people also take their schooling/careers pretty seriously. A good chunk of them here recently seem to be from overseas or French Canadians.

#1 by far: Emotional trainwrecks who just lay everything out there before any sane person would consider it appropriate.

#2: Younger chicks attracted to my aloofness who seem to mistake it for some kind of fatherly quality.

#3: nursing students who want to talk endlessly.

#4: therapists. No I don't seek them out. They just find me,

#5: Bipolars with a false sense of their own intellect who find my ASD validates them somehow.

Always some combo of the above.

In the past 7 or 8 years or so things have been merciful at least - I either strike 'that chord' where they can tell that there's more to me that they'd like to get to know or they miss it altogether. I do tend to draw well-rounded brainiacs, which is good.

In my early 20's and back farther though - dark tales, and way more toxic attention than healthy (ie. I looked like a toy apparently and when I'd assert my identity they didn't like it).

Uhhhh... is "whores" a category? With the exception of one or two, every female that's ever acted interested in me has had a widely known list of sex partners longer than my arm...

Usually black girls, and morbidly over-weight white girls who are into the same stuff I am... which is unfortunately never going to work out in either case.

I can be friends with both.. but I have Zero sexual attraction to either.. they are unfortunately always the ones who seem to be the most sexually interested in me.. where as the "Tom-boy" type who has no female friends and hands around tons of guys tends to just want to hang around me and get me to validate her choice of music or general appearance... They are sometimes sexually interested.. but never in forming a lasting relationship.. only in "Hooking up"...

The sort that I actually really would like to meet.. don't tend to pay me much attention.. or else they are so rare (Really.. why aren't there more girls who are cute and into ya know.. actual learning.. not just at college for fine arts and constantly looking for an easy line of credit for the supply store?)

Intelligent female Asians with musical talent.

Emotionally unstable NTs. I recently decided that I should always ask two questions before taking things farther: 1) "Do you have a major emotional challenges in your life?" 2) "If so, are you seeking treatment and/or taking medications?" I am thinking of also adding, "What do you know about Autism, and are you on the spectrum?

In addition to the types you attract let's add what types you are attracted to.

dont know. never really looked much into them

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Nobody.

Oh wait, I seem to attract gay guys sometimes, but that's it.