What do you believe makes you attractive to others?

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I could go on all day, but I am modest.

Well I guess I can add modesty to the list now

I got a killer smile sometimes for the right people
and cheek dimples
and soft long eyelashes

What a good idea for a thread.

Good Things:
- I am very well dressed, one of my female friends always makes sure that I look good in my clothing.
- I am very highly educated.
- I can provide, know my wine lists and love spicy food.
- I am a total gentlemen and I would never push for anything other than a first date.
- I always have a good story, my friends generally use me as an encyclopaedia.
- My body is taken care of, being ex-army, I am fit and built with next to zero body fat, even if I'm not that tall 5'9.

Bad Things:
- I deal very poorly with complicated situations, as a result many relationships end before they get off the ground.
- I tend to argue too much and never know when to stop.
- Not that tall, around average height but the people I date tend to be banished to flat shoes on date night.
- Deal very poorly in crowded environment.
- Meeting her friends is a project that will end in tears.
- My social overloads can be scary if you just met me. I am totally harmless but it torpedoes things when I withdraw for two days and won't talk to anyone.
- My career generally comes first.
- A bit shallow when it comes to a girl's appearance.

Oh, hey, welcome back.

Height. Weight. Money.
Loves kids and loves animals
Buddhist and vegetarian.
Humor, either you laugh with me or you laugh at me. Not much in the middle.

Stability, innocent-looking face, and I'm pretty responsible and capable in a variety of areas (just not socially!).

Since I haven't had much success with love/dating I will have to answer hypothetically.My possible characteristics that might make me attractive are: My honesty,intelligence, and my wit.Unless a woman found me physically attractive I don't think my qualities are readily apparent,it takes a while for me to let down my guard.Like many Aspies I have been bullied/burned in the past and am pretty leery around people I am not familiar with.

I'm kind
I'm extremely loyal
I love animals

These are not empirically confirmed by testimony, but I believe these are attractive qualities that I possess:

- I am brutally honest and transparent
- I am very intellectual and curious about the world around me
- I am ambitious and dedicated to growth and success in life and career
- I am highly cultured (at least when it comes to film and sometimes literature and music)
- I am an eloquent writer
- I speak my mind
- I am quiet and reserved, but always try to make everything I do speak have value
- I am tall
- I have a very sarcastic but (IMO) clever sense of humor
- I am humble, but not self-loathing

Looks
I'm kind
I'm a good listener
I'm tall
Well dressed
Well educated
Easygoing
Fun

My money.
My property.
My job.

My compassion for others and being overly affectionate and considering women as human beings! Possibly my intellect and silly goofy humor at times as well! And always wanting to comfort others who need lotsa hugs....woa what are you doing?! Gah what was that kiss for?

My piano playing (click here to view/listen), which has improved since these videos were recorded.

I accept people as they are.
I also have long, wavy, strawberry-blonde hair.
and bright green cat-eyes.
And I seem like a good listener (although most of the time I'm really listening to my mind-radio).