why won't my ex gf get back with me?

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12 Feb 2013, 3:04 am

billiscool wrote:

no, it's illogical. she dated me before. she loved me before. if happen once, it can happen again but
of course it's not. You ladies are lucky, If you act like a jerk for a couple months towards your boyfriends.
Your boyfriend would be like ''yeah, that cool'' but I do the same and she leaves me.
And she won't get back with me. Yeah I admit I wasn't perfect. But we had good times, but no she
has to focus on the last two months when we were dating. Not on the good stuff.

If you love someone before, you can love them again. make sense.

I feel for you man, I really do.
Girls can't know what it is like for a guy, because it can't be the same.
Most girls are heaps stronger than men inside, and I bet you are feeling that.
Even if she still loved you, she wont get back with you.
She has turned you down three times since. Never calls you. She wants to start over with someone new now.
Time for you to find someone new too, then you will never look back.

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12 Feb 2013, 3:09 am

Some women are shallow just like men can be. Love sucks sometimes! Youl find a hotter more understanding woman someday then you can rub it in your exes face and tell her she can do everything your ex couldnt do!

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12 Feb 2013, 3:32 am

Maybe it's because of what you said in another thread, that you made her feel like you didn't care about her. That will tend to drive people away.

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12 Feb 2013, 3:35 am

billiscool wrote:

There's no male/female differences here. It has happened to me as well. I feel like I'm a "better person" now than I was when things went wrong in our relationship. But he doesn't want me any more. The damage is done. He doesn't love me anymore. It's just the way it is and you can't figure it out logically.

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12 Feb 2013, 3:57 am

Quite frankly, it's no-one's business why person A won't go back to person B. If person B doesn't like it, then tough toenails. Person A has every right to be left alone.

Move on. Just because she dated you once doesn't mean she has to again. My ex could make all the changes in the world and become the perfect man but there is NO way I would EVER go back to him.

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12 Feb 2013, 5:24 am

Youve made it clear that you want to be back with her, she is fully aware of this fact right now, why dont you try to give her some space and let her approach you herself if she changes her mind

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12 Feb 2013, 5:29 am

Kezzstar wrote:

You'd say no to the perfect man...? Just because you broke up with him once...? :?:

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12 Feb 2013, 5:30 am

I gave up dating years ago.

I am h appy just to play with my toys in my
playroom or in the garden.

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12 Feb 2013, 6:03 am

Kezzstar wrote:

hey billiscool: Like I said man, they are stronger inside.
Get a new girl.

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12 Feb 2013, 6:05 am

Shau wrote:

Kezzstar wrote:

You'd say no to the perfect man...? Just because you broke up with him once...? :?:

Trust me, while there aren't many hard feelings left, it was still a drama and a half.

I should seriously sell the story to the writers of daytime soaps, they'd pay a fortune for it...

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12 Feb 2013, 7:33 am

Who_Am_I wrote:

Maybe it's because of what you said in another thread, that you made her feel like you didn't care about her. That will tend to drive people away.

^^^this. she gave you chances while you were still together, so it is not necessary to give you more chances now that you are broken up.

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12 Feb 2013, 9:49 am

Find a new girlfriend. The longer you stay hung up on her, the harder it will be..........

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