Do aspie males take a while to fall in love?

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For me, I think it varies quite a bit. I'm not terribly well versed in my own emotions. But I do fall in love, and, well, lust. And I am pretty sure I know the difference. It can take me time to grow to know and trust someone. I actually can be aware of the possibility and try not to think about it to much because I'm not sure it would work. I kinda failed miserably in one case. Just comes all at once. I can remember the exact moments and the exact triggers. I have never been prepared to deal with and understand the emotions involved, might be getting better with that.

They tend to be interested in other things than love...

It takes me months to warm up to someone, let alone love them.