Would you ever date a fat or obese person?

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30 Mar 2013, 4:49 pm

well i prefer the term round or beefy. as i would describe a few of my bfs. well maybe one. my fave ex. i found he was sexy with a few extra pounds, that was then. how times change. no meal was ever wasted on him.

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30 Mar 2013, 4:50 pm

Looks aren't the only factor in attraction, if they were, I wouldn't have been drawn to some of the people I liked.

Although I have to say that there is no turn off like someone who doesn't try and or care in life. And there is nothing more annoying than having your friends set you up with them.

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30 Mar 2013, 4:58 pm

I'm ok with slightly overweight/chunky girls. But if they are too fat (myspace angels), it's a no-no. I gained a lot of weight myself due to medicine, and my standards have gone down (logically) and my confidence is up. Some people thought I was too skinny before. I would agree. I think there is a happy medium. I think my ideal body weight is 200 lbs (i'm 6-1). I used to weigh 175 and now I weight at least 240. More than fat, bad acne is a turn off. Also hairy faces.

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30 Mar 2013, 4:59 pm

My friend's friend said the best sex he ever had was with a fat chick. I think there is some truth to that. Also, I know many men that would get head from a fat chick.

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30 Mar 2013, 5:27 pm

bizboy1 wrote:

170-180, 6'1 is actually the ideal weight. I was once 6'2 and 175, and it was considered to be the median mark between underweight and overweight, which is the ideal place to be. Above this is healthier only if it's exclusively muscle mass.

At 6'2, 195, I feel a little fat, even though a lot of it is really muscle.

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30 Mar 2013, 5:36 pm

It's only going to get worse.

Where I live, the programs at the high school football games list the weights of the players along with other information.

When I was in high school in the late 60s and early 70s, it was rare to see anyone on the program listed at over 160 and most were in the 140 to 155 pound range. Of my high school class, I was the second heaviest at 165.

These days, nearly every one of them is in the 160 to 190 pound range.

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30 Mar 2013, 6:08 pm

Tyri0n wrote:

bizboy1 wrote:

I have a very muscular/strong lower body and midsection. Probably constitutes most of my weight.

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30 Mar 2013, 8:05 pm

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a few stone bigger than some folk see as ideal (but fit and active, just very curvy, very voluptuos, very lovely)

That's not fat.

And no, to the question..
I'm 6'2 and like 150 pounds, it just wouldn't work.
I've dated girls who were barely a *tiny* chubby, a litttttlllee bit of fat in the right places, and they freak out about it and get super self-conscious... I imagine the fact that I'm so skinny does not help with that.

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30 Mar 2013, 8:16 pm

My ideal weights are 110-130 lbs for 5' 3"-5' 7". I like a little cushion for pushin`, if you catch my drift.

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30 Mar 2013, 8:20 pm

theshawngorton wrote:

My ideal weights are 110-130 lbs for 5' 3"-5' 7". I like a little cushion for pushin`, if you catch my drift.

No, no one catches your drift :shrug:

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30 Mar 2013, 8:24 pm

A little weight is good, but over 130 is too fat for me. There is more to grab while participating in coitus.

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30 Mar 2013, 8:39 pm

theshawngorton wrote:

A little weight is good, but over 130 is too fat for me. There is more to grab while participating in coitus.

Sarcasm always leads to hilarity on the aspie forum :lol:

"Sheldon, stop saying coitus!"

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30 Mar 2013, 8:43 pm

theshawngorton wrote:

A little weight is good, but over 130 is too fat for me. There is more to grab while participating in coitus.

130 lbs at what height?

Okay never mind that. That is quite thin. That is not much "cushin" not much at all.

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30 Mar 2013, 8:43 pm

No, I meant what I said. Seeing as I have engaged a woman in coitus, I found that it is more enjoyable to grab her in various places. More enjoyable for her, but still quite enjoyable.

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30 Mar 2013, 9:19 pm

no, I would not.

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30 Mar 2013, 9:27 pm

billiscool wrote:

no, I would not.

And why would you not, good sir?

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