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Don't be a p****, talk to her and nail her.

Don't forget to squat, lift and eat tonnes of oatz.

/proadvice

This is his chance of getting laid, if she's going to cheat, she will cheat anyway.

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Don't encourage cheating.

I'm not encouraging but this guy had never had a girlfriend, he should be open and tell her he wants her more than her boyfriend like Nambo said.

Not only does this "advice" a) attempt to validate cheating, it...

b) also undermines the OP's ability to form physical and platonic relationships with girls/women.

c) and, projects sex to be some sort of ludicrous mission objective and point-scoring sport in which nothing else matters as long as he "wins".

Seriously, let's put this into context with another scenario. "My best friend's husband died, she's grieving and she keeps turning to me. What should I do?" "Don't be a pvssy, nail her!! !!" Yeah.

EDIT: OP, as it has been said. Don't be "that guy". Trust this girl to make the decisions on her own to come to you if you want her. Don't be a manipulative force in all of this. Should there be a time you have to be honest with her about how you feel, then yes be honest and see how it goes then.

well f**k her boyfriend.I used to think cheating was wrong once,thinking of myself as some sort of knight who would never get a woman into trouble.Dont you think that guy would do the same if he was in my position.I have gone out with girls and texting and things like this even kissing some of them but once another guy tried with them I was out of the game,so the point is honesty doesnt pay especially in this kind of situations

If the girl was decent enough, you'd not be "out of the game". Heck, if you were decent enough, you wouldn't be out of the game!

Just talk to her and ask if there's some reason why it seems like she looks your way a lot. (Avoid the negative word, "stare".)
It's likely you're doing the same and/or she doesn't realize what she's doing... heck, she may be lost in thought and only staring blankly in what feels like your direction.
It's likely there's nothing amorous going on... ignore our resident womanizer.

I'd say a boyfriend, don't really worry too much. She's not married, she's not said "until death do we part" to her boyfriend, at least I don't think. For all you know, she could be in a bad/abusive relationship with her boyfriend and want you as a way out. I prevented myself from confessing how I felt to a girl because she had a boyfriend, it was a terrible mistake. In my case, with telling the girl how I felt, I was forced to anyway, except I told her like 3 days out from her wedding, when she invited me. By then it was "the jig is up" and yeah. If you like her, tell her. Whatever decision she makes, she makes. You shouldn't like, coerce her into leaving her boyfriend, but yeah.

Whatever you do, good luck.

She may just be bored in class. She may not mean to stare at you directly.

seconded. Also, people often stare when they think someone is weird. The girl and her boyfriend could be having a right laugh and giggle. probably best avoiding them where possible :S

Wolf, stop acting like a douche. So much for the "improvement", then.

Not everyone treats women as disposable property.


It's difficult to answer to OP not having seen the situation. This girl may (if she actually is) staring him for various reasons, not necessary in terms of being romantically interested in him. Just let her be, especially as she has a boyfriend.

True. It may mean anything... or nothing.