I think it's obvious now that she'd have called your gift, "crappy" no matter WHAT you gave her. She hasn't liked YOU for quite some time (which is why when someone else gives her the same @#$@#$ cookie, she looooves it.)
This happens a lot.. one partner (often but not exclusively female) is feeling less than "deliriously happy" and is planning an "exit strategy" which can go for months while they pretend to still like you in order to keep you unaware while they plan. During that time, they may steal resources, secure new lodgings, secure new partner, or worse.
Heck - I know one guy sitting in prison right now - he deserved it, but he was set up and pushed into action BY his commonlaw partner to do something illegal. Once jailed for it, she denied everything and now has full ownership of the entire estate instead of only half.
I'm sorry... I'm tired and cranky. People who do this kind of thing are selfish and evil - they make me very... VERY angry. ![Evil or Very Mad :evil:](./images/smilies/icon_evil.gif)