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nessa238
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19 Apr 2013, 7:45 am

She acted in a very rude, ungrateful manner. It's the thought that counts with gifts and if she'd wanted something so specific she should have given you the list you asked for

You'll never please this type of person - they will just grind you down

I wouldn't be making any efforts to get her back until she apologises for being such a b***h!

She clearly thinks she's doing you some kind of favour being with you which is highly ironic as it's the other way round
quite evidently

What exactly is she bringing to the table?

Let her find some other mug to put up with her awful behaviour

Take a break from the whole subject and enjoy your freedom!

Also, as has been stated by another poster, if you're paying for everything presumably it's your name on the mortgage or rental contract, so no way should you have moved out

Is it a mortgaged house or rented accommmodation?



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19 Apr 2013, 8:34 am

from what i have read, i think you have encountered a failure.
she does not like you much, and i am surprised how so many people get married for no good reason.
what you have written is only an irrelevant aspect of why she is finished with you. you may try to please her as a butler would do, but who fails in lust because you are the "butler" who's job it is to lick arses, but never vagina's.

who knows? certainly not me.



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19 Apr 2013, 10:02 am

I think it's obvious now that she'd have called your gift, "crappy" no matter WHAT you gave her. She hasn't liked YOU for quite some time (which is why when someone else gives her the same @#$@#$ cookie, she looooves it.) :roll:

This happens a lot.. one partner (often but not exclusively female) is feeling less than "deliriously happy" and is planning an "exit strategy" which can go for months while they pretend to still like you in order to keep you unaware while they plan. During that time, they may steal resources, secure new lodgings, secure new partner, or worse.

Heck - I know one guy sitting in prison right now - he deserved it, but he was set up and pushed into action BY his commonlaw partner to do something illegal. Once jailed for it, she denied everything and now has full ownership of the entire estate instead of only half.


I'm sorry... I'm tired and cranky. People who do this kind of thing are selfish and evil - they make me very... VERY angry. :evil:



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05 May 2013, 6:51 pm

it is SOOOOOOOOOOOO hard to find a proper mate in this world! :hmph:



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06 May 2013, 3:38 pm

I read the entire article, I feel empathetic towards your loss.

However, what I will say is this, how does she get to stay in the house and you have to move out?

If this was me I would be furious at that prospect, I would of told her to leave herself as she is the one who wanted to instigate this, I feel you need to stand up more for yourself and take some hold of the situation.


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