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27 Apr 2013, 4:19 pm

Just remember you will get nine thousand no before you get one yes.

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27 Apr 2013, 4:22 pm

appletheclown wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

ARRRGHHH....FRESSH MEAAAATT

Ohh noo it is a zombie woman! They have been starved of attention from good looking men like us, and we are still virgins, ruuunnnn!! !! ! (grabs condoms)

FRESHH ....COCKS......

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27 Apr 2013, 5:22 pm

appletheclown wrote:

Or you could lower your princess leia standards and go out with someone with a more counter-cultural group. Besides how are all the super hot ladies ever going to marry a handsome aspie man if all we do is whine and sit on our arse? You got the power! You got to know that given your age, becoming physically fit will be easier. Try and start an exercise regimine, for example I bike at least a mile a day, ladies love legs of steel! I may be 19, but I still have less time than you. Plus, for starters, your still a teenager, you haven't gained the maturity of the man you will become, or the defining character you are going to be. Please for now, be yourself, stay fit, and start to make the effort now to become skilled socially, it will help you a lot more than waiting like a lot of us did. Your young, stay cool, be respectful, and love ladies for who they are as a whole and not just looks and you will be quite alright.

Working out only helps you superficially. It makes cashiers at the supermarket smile at you instead of looking at you in disgust, but the main problem with Aspergers is our terrible social skills and general suckiness at life. How is this proved? There's plenty of ugly looking dudes with girlfriends, many times hotter girlfriends than them by a large margin. If you work out, the best that alone will get you is hookups with random girls at clubs or something if you're willing to go outside and give girls basically a used car salesman script.

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27 Apr 2013, 7:16 pm

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You've got one thing wrong about me. I could care less about the women who look at me with disgust, they do not deserve me. When all is said and done, and I am married to my wife which I will be loyal to, completely infatuated and content with her, I will laugh at all the women, super model women, who constantly try and change the men they are with and themselves as well. They will see how happy I am with my love, and they will know they were gravely mistaken in misjudging me. I do it to build the confidence to go out with women out of my league too, so if I do woo one of them, and begin a long lasting marriage with one, I can show the world, standards are for losers who don't want a happy life. Not exercising isn't healthy, and it making you look good wasn't why I mentioned it, completely at least. I will be telling people this from the life that enjoys a hot lady by my side constantly, yes, but being happy in life means not only dealing with things that make you unhappy, but dealing with your life as a whole and accepting realities, that you can then overcome them. For example if I settle for the fact that I am who I am, love anime, love throwing tomahawks, love Japan, get angry when women and children are hurt or manipulated, then I will try to find a lady who likes all that if it, is hot, and loves for who I am if it kills me. No use crying because it was hard, because in the long run it will be worth it, and will serve me to better myself and my marriage, not to mention my children.

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27 Apr 2013, 7:23 pm

1000Knives wrote:

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And I am no used car salesman, I'm a Hobo with a Shotgun, who will kick you ass and blast you if you treat people like carp under your shoe. I do have asperger's myself, doesn't mean I am going to complain about it, and abandon all hope as we know it. I don't go to clubs by the way, I detest drinking for pleasure or a buzz, as well as smoking. It nearly destroyed my father and I would expect it to have similar effects on women. On the other hand settling for a bad girl with tattoos that cover everything but her face, has piercings you can't see, is strong and assertive, and enjoys listening to power metal, drinking and smoking is actually still quite attractive to me. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as long as I think my lady is out of my league, she is.

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27 Apr 2013, 7:25 pm

1000Knives wrote:

appletheclown wrote:

Maybe it isn't much by itself, but along with all the other selling points, it adds up.

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27 Apr 2013, 7:30 pm

Being an aspie girl has some advantages over being an aspie guy from my perspective. The first one being that NT guys are the ones who will try to pick you up. You won't have to try to put yourself on the line as much initially in that respect. Sorry but yes it is a continuing double standard.

If you can figure out how to doll yourself up adequately, you will get hit on, and that can certainly boost your self-esteem. Girls have a much easier time getting action than guys, because guys are always looking for it.

HOWEVER, we are only talking about sex here. We are not talking about relationships, which are IMO much harder to accomplish. So if you just want to lose your virginity I don't think there will be a lack of dudes willing to take on that job. You just have to make it known that's what you want. They will only decline if they think it will mean you will get all freaky and committed on them if that's not what they want.

I lost my virginity relatively young (for this site). I was on a mission to get it done and over with and it was not under ideal circumstances, but I did manage to do what I set out to do.

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27 Apr 2013, 8:35 pm

mikassyna wrote:

Being an aspie girl has some advantages over being an aspie guy from my perspective. The first one being that NT guys are the ones who will try to pick you up. You won't have to try to put yourself on the line as much initially in that respect. Sorry but yes it is a continuing double standard.

If you can figure out how to doll yourself up adequately, you will get hit on, and that can certainly boost your self-esteem. Girls have a much easier time getting action than guys, BECAUSE GUYS ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR IT.

HOWEVER, we are only talking about sex here. We are not talking about relationships, which are IMO much harder to accomplish. So if you just want to lose your virginity I don't think there will be a lack of dudes willing to take on that job. You just have to make it known that's what you want. They will only decline if they think it will mean you will get all freaky and committed on them if that's not what they want.

I lost my virginity relatively young (for this site). I was on a mission to get it done and over with and it was not under ideal circumstances, but I did manage to do what I set out to do.

Ok, first of all, I am in it for a relationship, which involves sex, commitment, and loyalty. Second , just because you've had sex before, doesn't mean we are actually jealous of you. I want to be a virgin when I get married, my wife will get virgin timber to chop down however she likes it. Getting married to a lady who is a virgin isn't that hard either. I don't know why you are all butthurt for not having sex any ways, and so glad you did at a young age if you have, it isn't about being a virgin, it is about the quality of the sex, relationship, and commitment that that man or woman who takes your virginity makes in you. I feel sorry for other people here, I have absolutely no problem getting in a relationship, I just can't right now as I am not supporting myself yet. Plus my mom is having brain surgery, the stress of her boy becoming a man and bringing home a wife could quite literally kill her. You guys at least need to be enthusiastic, If I wasn't I would have given up a long time ago.

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27 Apr 2013, 8:37 pm

It depends. If you are uncomfortable with human contact (such as myself) then sexual relationships will be difficult. If not, then you can keep your head up and push past the barrier that is autism.

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27 Apr 2013, 8:40 pm

PsychoSarah wrote:

It depends. If you are uncomfortable with human contact (such as myself) then sexual relationships will be difficult. If not, then you can keep your head up and push past the barrier that is autism.

Don't hate me because I'm addicted to cuddling, especially breasts! :oops: