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08 May 2013, 1:05 am

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if a man sleeps with over 100 women, ugly or not, he is a ho and probably has a sexually transmitted disease or two.


:lol:



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08 May 2013, 1:08 am

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cathylynn wrote:
if a man sleeps with over 100 women, ugly or not, he is a ho and probably has a sexually transmitted disease or two.


:lol:


Reminds me of a girl I went out with on OKC. There was a profile question: "Do you think a girl who sleeps with 100 guys is a bad person?" She answered "no." A page later, there was a question stating "Do you think a guy who sleeps with 100 women is a bad person?" She put "yes."

So, cathylynn, what do you think about a woman who sleeps with over 100 men? :lol:



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08 May 2013, 1:12 am

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The men on this board tend to be unemployed, so not an accurate sample size. Studies show that almost no women are willing to date an unemployed man, even if (and perhaps especially if) the woman herself has a good career. In addition, as I noticed in the aspie "social skills group" I tried for several months, most of the guys thought they were entitled to hot blondes or otherwise had no understanding of what compatibility means or how to identify it. Given this, the results on this board are highly unsurprising.

Average-looking women are more likely to be willing to engage in casual sex. They also flirt a lot more openly than ugly women and are more likely than ugly women to do the approaching, so they are much easier to identify, which should be especially helpful for an aspie.


Do they??

By my observations at least half seem to be working or they're students

I think you make a lot of assumptions that are incorrect in reality

You assume that what you observe is the whole picture

People are doing all sorts in their own homes - it doesn't all take place in bars

Why would anyone go into an environment to flirt where their flirting wouldn't be likely to work
because there's too much competition?



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08 May 2013, 1:14 am

Tyri0n wrote:
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cathylynn wrote:
if a man sleeps with over 100 women, ugly or not, he is a ho and probably has a sexually transmitted disease or two.


:lol:


Reminds me of a girl I went out with on OKC. There was a profile question: "Do you think a girl who sleeps with 100 guys is a bad person?" She answered "no." A page later, there was a question stating "Do you think a guy who sleeps with 100 women is a bad person?" She put "yes."

So, cathylynn, what do you think about a woman who sleeps with over 100 men? :lol:


I'm not getting your joke



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08 May 2013, 1:16 am

Tyri0n wrote:
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cathylynn wrote:
if a man sleeps with over 100 women, ugly or not, he is a ho and probably has a sexually transmitted disease or two.


:lol:


Reminds me of a girl I went out with on OKC. There was a profile question: "Do you think a girl who sleeps with 100 guys is a bad person?" She answered "no." A page later, there was a question stating "Do you think a guy who sleeps with 100 women is a bad person?" She put "yes."

So, cathylynn, what do you think about a woman who sleeps with over 100 men? :lol:


Yeah, he has a point.

There are some women here who said that they lost count and certainly slept with more than 100, are these hoes too, cathylynn?



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08 May 2013, 1:16 am

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Tyri0n wrote:
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cathylynn wrote:
if a man sleeps with over 100 women, ugly or not, he is a ho and probably has a sexually transmitted disease or two.


:lol:


Reminds me of a girl I went out with on OKC. There was a profile question: "Do you think a girl who sleeps with 100 guys is a bad person?" She answered "no." A page later, there was a question stating "Do you think a guy who sleeps with 100 women is a bad person?" She put "yes."

So, cathylynn, what do you think about a woman who sleeps with over 100 men? :lol:


I'm not getting your joke


He was pointing out the hypocrisy of that okc user.



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08 May 2013, 1:17 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Tyri0n wrote:
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cathylynn wrote:
if a man sleeps with over 100 women, ugly or not, he is a ho and probably has a sexually transmitted disease or two.


:lol:


Reminds me of a girl I went out with on OKC. There was a profile question: "Do you think a girl who sleeps with 100 guys is a bad person?" She answered "no." A page later, there was a question stating "Do you think a guy who sleeps with 100 women is a bad person?" She put "yes."

So, cathylynn, what do you think about a woman who sleeps with over 100 men? :lol:


Yeah, he has a point.

There are some women here who said that they lost count and certainly slept with more than 100, are these hoes too, cathylynn?


Who cares what she thinks?

Is she on this board?



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08 May 2013, 1:19 am

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Also, as odd as this may sound, ugly women are less likely to be willing to engage in random sex than women whom society would view as "hot."

I have never figured out why this is.

My guess is that ugly women socialize less so tend not to pick up on the obsessions that some girls have with sex (all those attractive women reading Fifty Shades of Gray, etc), go out less, have less confidence, and therefore never ventured beyond the stereotyped traditionalism they were taught as children.

Of course, there are always exceptions, and what is defined as "hot" varies widely. So I'm referring to women that are at the extremes of ugly.

But I think your scenario is highly, highly unlikely.


I disagree

I've never been seen as stunningly attractive but I bet I've had sex with more men than most on this board


Well, then you probably don't meet my criteria. I said what is defined as "hot" varies widely, and you probably don't give yourself enough credit anyway.

Besides, having sex than "most people on this board" is not really saying much. :lol:


I've seen women on here say they've lost count

With the internet you could have someone every night if you were that desperate for it in my opinion


For the females maybe, you said you still got messages even without a pic.

For most males, it cannot be done.


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as there's men out there for whom sex is an obsession and sites that cater for this type (my brain's gone dead though can't remember the term for these sites)

Swinging sites


Check the gender ratios of those sites, they're even way imbalanced than okc and they're full of scam profiles presenting as females.



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08 May 2013, 1:22 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Tyri0n wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
cathylynn wrote:
if a man sleeps with over 100 women, ugly or not, he is a ho and probably has a sexually transmitted disease or two.


:lol:


Reminds me of a girl I went out with on OKC. There was a profile question: "Do you think a girl who sleeps with 100 guys is a bad person?" She answered "no." A page later, there was a question stating "Do you think a guy who sleeps with 100 women is a bad person?" She put "yes."

So, cathylynn, what do you think about a woman who sleeps with over 100 men? :lol:


I'm not getting your joke


He was pointing out the hypocrisy of that okc user.


All she's doing is what men often do ie they want to notch up a lot of women but don't like women doing the same

They make the mistake of thinkign the problem is that the woman will go with 'anyone' and that she's easy but the fact of the matter is that if a woman has had a lot of partners she'll probably be pretty choosy as she'll have a lot to compare with
ie she won't want run of the mill, she'll want someone different who can do what the others can't



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08 May 2013, 1:24 am

nessa238 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Tyri0n wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
cathylynn wrote:
if a man sleeps with over 100 women, ugly or not, he is a ho and probably has a sexually transmitted disease or two.


:lol:


Reminds me of a girl I went out with on OKC. There was a profile question: "Do you think a girl who sleeps with 100 guys is a bad person?" She answered "no." A page later, there was a question stating "Do you think a guy who sleeps with 100 women is a bad person?" She put "yes."

So, cathylynn, what do you think about a woman who sleeps with over 100 men? :lol:


I'm not getting your joke


He was pointing out the hypocrisy of that okc user.


All she's doing is what men often do ie they want to notch up a lot of women but don't like women doing the same



Two wrongs doesn't make a right.

Your point?

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They make the mistake of thinkign the problem is that the woman will go with 'anyone' and that she's easy but the fact of the matter is that if a woman has had a lot of partners she'll probably be pretty choosy as she'll have a lot to compare with


Same for the men who had a lot of partners.



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08 May 2013, 1:26 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Tyri0n wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Tyri0n wrote:
Also, as odd as this may sound, ugly women are less likely to be willing to engage in random sex than women whom society would view as "hot."

I have never figured out why this is.

My guess is that ugly women socialize less so tend not to pick up on the obsessions that some girls have with sex (all those attractive women reading Fifty Shades of Gray, etc), go out less, have less confidence, and therefore never ventured beyond the stereotyped traditionalism they were taught as children.

Of course, there are always exceptions, and what is defined as "hot" varies widely. So I'm referring to women that are at the extremes of ugly.

But I think your scenario is highly, highly unlikely.


I disagree

I've never been seen as stunningly attractive but I bet I've had sex with more men than most on this board


Well, then you probably don't meet my criteria. I said what is defined as "hot" varies widely, and you probably don't give yourself enough credit anyway.

Besides, having sex than "most people on this board" is not really saying much. :lol:


I've seen women on here say they've lost count

With the internet you could have someone every night if you were that desperate for it in my opinion


For the females maybe, you said you still got messages even without a pic.

For most males, it cannot be done.


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as there's men out there for whom sex is an obsession and sites that cater for this type (my brain's gone dead though can't remember the term for these sites)

Swinging sites


Check the gender ratios of those sites, they're even way imbalanced than okc and they're full of scam profiles presenting as females.


The person I was seeing at that time goes on swinging sites a lot and meets couples for sex

He is often in demand by these couples and he's a single male

It all depends if the man can build up a good relationship with the couple and not threaten their relationship

These are all skills that are nothing to do with looks, more social skills and sexual technique

i've never done swinging btw - I only went on the site to try and track him down as he was on ther with his partner of the time

I put an ad on and as got loads of responses I decided to investigate and treated it like a dating site

I only saw about 4 people off it



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08 May 2013, 1:29 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Tyri0n wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
cathylynn wrote:
if a man sleeps with over 100 women, ugly or not, he is a ho and probably has a sexually transmitted disease or two.


:lol:


Reminds me of a girl I went out with on OKC. There was a profile question: "Do you think a girl who sleeps with 100 guys is a bad person?" She answered "no." A page later, there was a question stating "Do you think a guy who sleeps with 100 women is a bad person?" She put "yes."

So, cathylynn, what do you think about a woman who sleeps with over 100 men? :lol:


I'm not getting your joke


He was pointing out the hypocrisy of that okc user.


All she's doing is what men often do ie they want to notch up a lot of women but don't like women doing the same



Two wrongs doesn't make a right.

Your point?

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They make the mistake of thinkign the problem is that the woman will go with 'anyone' and that she's easy but the fact of the matter is that if a woman has had a lot of partners she'll probably be pretty choosy as she'll have a lot to compare with


Same for the men who had a lot of partners.


Men don't like women playing them at their own game basically

There's no 'wrong' or 'right' in this respect either, just cultural norms



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08 May 2013, 1:35 am

nessa238 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Tyri0n wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Tyri0n wrote:
Also, as odd as this may sound, ugly women are less likely to be willing to engage in random sex than women whom society would view as "hot."

I have never figured out why this is.

My guess is that ugly women socialize less so tend not to pick up on the obsessions that some girls have with sex (all those attractive women reading Fifty Shades of Gray, etc), go out less, have less confidence, and therefore never ventured beyond the stereotyped traditionalism they were taught as children.

Of course, there are always exceptions, and what is defined as "hot" varies widely. So I'm referring to women that are at the extremes of ugly.

But I think your scenario is highly, highly unlikely.


I disagree

I've never been seen as stunningly attractive but I bet I've had sex with more men than most on this board


Well, then you probably don't meet my criteria. I said what is defined as "hot" varies widely, and you probably don't give yourself enough credit anyway.

Besides, having sex than "most people on this board" is not really saying much. :lol:


I've seen women on here say they've lost count

With the internet you could have someone every night if you were that desperate for it in my opinion


For the females maybe, you said you still got messages even without a pic.

For most males, it cannot be done.


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as there's men out there for whom sex is an obsession and sites that cater for this type (my brain's gone dead though can't remember the term for these sites)

Swinging sites


Check the gender ratios of those sites, they're even way imbalanced than okc and they're full of scam profiles presenting as females.


The person I was seeing at that time goes on swinging sites a lot and meets couples for sex

He is often in demand by these couples and he's a single male

It all depends if the man can build up a good relationship with the couple and not threaten their relationship

These are all skills that are nothing to do with looks, more social skills and sexual technique

i've never done swinging btw - I only went on the site to try and track him down as he was on ther with his partner of the time

I put an ad on and as got loads of responses I decided to investigate and treated it like a dating site

I only saw about 4 people off it


I got swinging offers on non-swinging sites, I declined all of them.

I found the idea disturbing - f*****g the wife in front of the husband.
Also those couples tend to be bisexual, gawd knows what the husband would do to me from behind.



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08 May 2013, 1:41 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Tyri0n wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Tyri0n wrote:
Also, as odd as this may sound, ugly women are less likely to be willing to engage in random sex than women whom society would view as "hot."

I have never figured out why this is.

My guess is that ugly women socialize less so tend not to pick up on the obsessions that some girls have with sex (all those attractive women reading Fifty Shades of Gray, etc), go out less, have less confidence, and therefore never ventured beyond the stereotyped traditionalism they were taught as children.

Of course, there are always exceptions, and what is defined as "hot" varies widely. So I'm referring to women that are at the extremes of ugly.

But I think your scenario is highly, highly unlikely.


I disagree

I've never been seen as stunningly attractive but I bet I've had sex with more men than most on this board


Well, then you probably don't meet my criteria. I said what is defined as "hot" varies widely, and you probably don't give yourself enough credit anyway.

Besides, having sex than "most people on this board" is not really saying much. :lol:


I've seen women on here say they've lost count

With the internet you could have someone every night if you were that desperate for it in my opinion


For the females maybe, you said you still got messages even without a pic.

For most males, it cannot be done.


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as there's men out there for whom sex is an obsession and sites that cater for this type (my brain's gone dead though can't remember the term for these sites)

Swinging sites


Check the gender ratios of those sites, they're even way imbalanced than okc and they're full of scam profiles presenting as females.


The person I was seeing at that time goes on swinging sites a lot and meets couples for sex

He is often in demand by these couples and he's a single male

It all depends if the man can build up a good relationship with the couple and not threaten their relationship

These are all skills that are nothing to do with looks, more social skills and sexual technique

i've never done swinging btw - I only went on the site to try and track him down as he was on ther with his partner of the time

I put an ad on and as got loads of responses I decided to investigate and treated it like a dating site

I only saw about 4 people off it


I got swinging offers on non-swinging sites, I declined all of them.

I found the idea disturbing - f***ing the wife in front of the husband.
Also those couples tend to be bisexual, gawd knows what the husband would do to me from behind.


The person I knew wouldn't let the man do anything to him, only watch - he was paranoid about being thought gay

It seems a common phenomenon that the man can't get it up or isn't very good at sex so is happy to get another man to f-k his wife/partner by proxy rather than her have an affair - I agree it's bizarre!

The person I knew became like a marriage counsellor to the couple as well as sex partner and confidante for the wife



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08 May 2013, 1:47 am

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I found the idea disturbing - f***ing the wife in front of the husband.


I dunno, it can be kinda hot, if maybe a little awkward.



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08 May 2013, 1:49 am

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I found the idea disturbing - f***ing the wife in front of the husband.


I dunno, it can be kinda hot, if maybe a little awkward.


Isn't the man struggling to contain his jealousy/resentment/animosity towards you?

If I had to observe a partner of mine having sex with another woman I'd be very upset - I'd hate it!