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18 Jun 2013, 7:18 pm

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Lower your standards too. That is a good one to throw in there.


No, it's good to have high standards. That is, as long as you're willing to work for them.



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18 Jun 2013, 7:42 pm

until recently (id had one night stands ect) but i found intimacy (non sexual) difficult, i also found holding conversation difficult.. however the main issue has been moving to a desolate village



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18 Jun 2013, 7:45 pm

Actually, in my case, the real reason is because I'm still trying to figure whether or not I want a relationship. Part of me craves that bond, but another part dreads the consequences.



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18 Jun 2013, 8:08 pm

I already said it was me so why am I even posting. I'm going to get some aviators, my Triton headset to go around my neck, a mesh jacket with lots of pockets, a graphic tee with a BA wolf print on it to go underneath, canvas boot cut pants, black leather steel toed dress boots, and wade through the sea of weird looks for the girl that actually likes it, and ask her out, that is what I will do.


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18 Jun 2013, 8:12 pm

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I already said it was me so why am I even posting. I'm going to get some aviators, my Triton headset to go around my neck, a mesh jacket with lots of pockets, a graphic tee with a BA wolf print on it to go underneath, canvas boot cut pants, black leather steel toed dress boots, and wade through the sea of weird looks for the girl that actually likes it, and ask her out, that is what I will do.


I'm not sure many like the Unabomber look



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18 Jun 2013, 8:12 pm

Can I be an astronaut, too?



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18 Jun 2013, 8:20 pm

Also at current i live in a small village with no one my age at all, i dont drive so i need to fix that asap.



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18 Jun 2013, 8:24 pm

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appletheclown wrote:
I already said it was me so why am I even posting. I'm going to get some aviators, my Triton headset to go around my neck, a mesh jacket with lots of pockets, a graphic tee with a BA wolf print on it to go underneath, canvas boot cut pants, black leather steel toed dress boots, and wade through the sea of weird looks for the girl that actually likes it, and ask her out, that is what I will do.


I'm not sure many like the Unabomber look
I'm pretty sure that isn't a una bomber look, he looks like this:

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That looks nothing like what I said. I said mesh jacket, not poor man's hoodie and a pornstache.


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18 Jun 2013, 8:29 pm

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Can I be an astronaut, too?


If you don't mind living in tight spaces for long periods of time and can withstand adverse conditions, I don't see why not, if that's what you really want.



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18 Jun 2013, 8:37 pm

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Is it because you have aspergers? Nope.


Actually, it partly is. That doesn't mean that you can't learn to improve your social skills to get one in the future but it doesn't change the diagnostic for Asperger's.



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18 Jun 2013, 8:43 pm

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I already said it was me so why am I even posting. I'm going to get some aviators, my Triton headset to go around my neck, a mesh jacket with lots of pockets, a graphic tee with a BA wolf print on it to go underneath, canvas boot cut pants, black leather steel toed dress boots, and wade through the sea of weird looks for the girl that actually likes it, and ask her out, that is what I will do.


I'm not sure many like the Unabomber look


Besides you and everyone who has talked to boo or wolfheart knows I already had a girlfriend. I fell in love too fast, it was actually too fast, so for some reason I am too good when I really like someone, then end up breaking their heart and then I feel like a Jackarse. So I have an opposite sort of problem sometimes.


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18 Jun 2013, 8:44 pm

i dont know if i want one anyway, pretty emotionally disinterested, unless i know them beforehand



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18 Jun 2013, 9:20 pm

huh. well. golly gee. I'm glad that's solved.


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18 Jun 2013, 9:35 pm

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I'm glad that's solved.


Up next: The REAL reason why you aren't a millionaire


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18 Jun 2013, 11:02 pm

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1401b wrote:
I'm glad that's solved.


Up next: The REAL reason why you aren't a millionaire


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18 Jun 2013, 11:48 pm

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Is it because you have aspergers? Nope.


Actually, it partly is. That doesn't mean that you can't learn to improve your social skills to get one in the future but it doesn't change the diagnostic for Asperger's.


Diagnosis is irrelevant. Most people on here however use their diagnosis as an excuse to just sit on their asses all day and b***h on WP about how much their lives suck because they aren't in a relationship, and they blame it on AS, which is completely false, yet it prevents them from taking action.