Why do women keep lying to me

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One good way to know a woman is a woman is to know her, lol.

Well, here's the thing - your first couple of dates are supposed to be where you bridge the gap between you both. In that time you've got to learn to be both her friend and the guy she'll want over other guys (or at least one she'll settle for). That is done with concise profiling, smooth talking and listening.

Yes, a lot of long lasting relationships are built on the foundation of a good friendship. But you have to remember this is rarely something that happens on dating sites. That's just now how they work. That works for people who grew up together, met in real life, or have been net pals for a very very long time. That's a lot of time to invest in one individual on the off chance that they might like you. To have a relationship built on friendship it's best to leave things to fate. Ok back to dating sites:

Clue - women will either find you attractive or unattractive. If they initiated first then congrats, they find you attractive (or you put down that you have a car, earn a fair bit of cash etc.). If they respond to you in a timely manner, they probably like you too. And your dates will either make you appear more sexy to them or less sexy. So if you feel the dates are where you're going to suffer, I would suggest you mention you're fairly new to the concept of dating beforehand.

As for your plans to reach out more and try new things and groups - good luck! I hope it works out for you !

I've had a few people online before message me and then can't tell me if or when they would be available to meet in person. People from online dating sites are far more likely to give me the could shoulder or silent treatment than anyone I meet IRL. It's going to be harder to detect honesty and dishonesty through text message, but there are some warning signs you can pick up on through text. If the person tries to do the heavy flirting through text quickly and doesn't back off, more often than not I find the person is just screwing around and trying to figure out who may or may not be easy. If a person is already professing their love... prepare to be asked for money. Some that back off after the initial attempt of flirty text have continued to talk to me and I did end up on dates with them.

IRL though, if women are lying to you, it's probably due to the fact that you may lying to yourself. Dishonesty works on dishonest people after all.

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