Alla wrote:
GregCav wrote:
There are indeed buttons for me too, that hit the nervous system raw and unfettered.
But speaking generally, loves, likes, dislikes, anger. These usually happen slower, and are therefore more controlled.
Can you explain why these happen slowly for you? Does love, for example, have to pass through logic first? Do you just decide to be in love with someone?
You don't just meet someone and fall in love with them. You might like them, even like them a lot.
Love is a funny thing. When you first experience love it's overwhelming and takes over your mind. Then you spend some time with the girl and find that you and her have similar likes and dislikes. A bond forms between the two of you. It's not strong at this point, but it’s a bond. You spend more time together, and you become real good friends. This is still love, but it's a far stronger love.
Then you start getting intimate together. Soon you have a committed love to one another, a great friendship, respect for one another, and a protective bond for one another. This too is love, but it's a deep love & affection.
This is why I say love is slower.
If you catch yourself at the very beginning, you can hold your heart at bay for some months. It will eventualy fail and you'll fall in love with her, even if she's not aware of you. But again, it's not quick.
11 Jul 2013, 5:58 pm
