Ugly Girl Entitlement Disorder (UGED) = Nice Guy (TM)?

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(shrug) Maybe it's more of an American thing than a UK thing.
I really haven't seen many people with the attitude which you describe, who weren't American.

It's a bit ridiculous reading that article, they base the dating scene off 2 things: being entirely superficial and going into dating for their own personal satisfaction.

I feel bad for people who approach dating in such a manner. It's like a business transaction as someone previously pointed out.

Either way the stereotyping is ridiculous, just because a woman is overweight doesn't mean she should settle for any man who's interested. I can understand having "ridiculous standards" but at the same time, why settle if you're not happy? And even for the "broke unconfident male" or whatever, why settle for someone just to say you have someone? Oh, I'm skinny and broke with no confidence, I'm only going to date ugly fat chicks because that's all I can get.. it's entirely ridiculous. As long as two people are attracted to each other, get along and what not, who cares?

y u postin bout me tyri0n

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ok, thing is with how many guys do see rape as a minor inconvenience I don't take chances with comments worded as such.

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...so yea, it seems pretty hard to "accidentally" rape someone unless you're plastered as hell.

I have noticed quite a few overweight, sometimes very obese, also regular sized unattractive women who have similar ideals to the OP's first post.

Getting the chance to actually here them really talk, I've found that some of them actually have a higher than normal amount of sex partners. Often with guys that fit or are close to their criteria. You wouldn't initially think that's the case when you look at them. AT ALL.

The thing is that these men use them for extremely easily attainable sex when sex from more desirable women isn't as forthcoming. Basically, in the sexual lean times that every man goes through. This is often why "nice guys" are not even looked at or considered by these women and don't have a chance. They are being "occupied" on their spare time by more "Alpha Male" types that seem to get around to f*****g damn near all women not just the more "desirable" ones. That's why I think in a lot of cases some women aren't as hard up for sex. They are getting it, even when they are not in a relationship and don't feel the need to place requirements on Alpha Males. That's why they are technically still single and still pretty much alone.

The reason why you don't actually SEE this happening is cause the Alpha males aren't required to have friendships with them, take them out on dates, buy them stuff, or be seen with them in public at all. All he has to do is show up and he gets what he wants, how he wants, whenever he wants. To top it off, he doesn't have to reciprocate a damn thing if he doesn't want to. He's got all the control. She will do quite happily things to please them that she won't do for a regular guy. Not even in a committed relationship.

To make matters worse, women often don't "count" these interactions when discussing sexual history, because technically these men are not boyfriends, and they will only feel like sluts if they bring it up. They also don't want the regular guy to know that they can have sex with abandon that often primarily focuses on pleasuring the male, because frankly, the regular guy doesn't have what it takes to bring that out of them.

Also, the interactions with these men can often continue even when she finds an actual boyfriend. He is likely much less dominant and she can pretty much control him with behaviors such as withholding affection and sex. Afterall, she's not hard up for it.

Anyways, I kind of digressed. The point that I'm making is that these women often do in fact have relations with the kind of men they are looking for which makes them hopeful that in the future they can actually land one for a committed relationship that they can tell the world about and have a nice life with. It's not the case, they just get strung along for sex by partners that only want them in the bedroom, car, office, etc.

Before I get any backlash, I'm not saying ALL women are like this. Not all obese women are like this. Not all unattractive women are like this. I just noticed a lot more than meets the eye are.

Lastly, these women aren't necessarily psychotic for having their ideals. Having the "carrot" sometimes literally in their face makes them have hope, and it doesn't seem so far fetched to them.

Some women don't fit in this category, and yes, they are a little delusional.