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31 Jul 2013, 5:28 pm

Maybee if the guy told them he was going celebate for a year they would ask him...



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31 Jul 2013, 5:29 pm

Jono wrote:
Also, even if it was easy women to get sex then that still doesn't explain why such behaviour should be shunned and why "slut" should be a dirty word, while the opposite is true for men, therefore it's still actually a double-standard.


It's much more difficult for guys, so it's more of an "accomplishment" of sorts. That's why guys don't get called sluts as easily.

Also, I suspect most people that refer to it as "double-standard" never even thought of the one-sided difficulty part of it. :roll:



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31 Jul 2013, 5:35 pm

Venger wrote:
Jono wrote:
Also, even if it was easy women to get sex then that still doesn't explain why such behaviour should be shunned and why "slut" should be a dirty word, while the opposite is true for men, therefore it's still actually a double-standard.


It's much more difficult for guys, so it's more of an "accomplishment" of sorts. That's why guys don't get called sluts as easily.

Also, I suspect most people that refer to it as "double-standard" never even thought of the one-sided difficulty part of it. :roll:


You aren't even bothering to address my other main point. You know, the one where I state that it would actually be a lot easier for guys to get laid if we stopped calling women sluts.



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31 Jul 2013, 5:42 pm

[quote="Kurgan"]This should settle the debate once and for all. A social experiment was conducted where an attractive young woman asked 14 men to sleep with her, with a 50% success rate. You can see the video here:
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what would the rate be for an average looking women



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31 Jul 2013, 5:44 pm

Well, as for the way I was raised, guys were supposed to be always wired for sex whereas women "might" have sex only if they were fertile. (horny because the egg was there).
If a woman is asking for sex, it means she'll certainly have it. Thus, a better success rate.
Interestingly, my aspie husband will ALWAYS turn me down. I only get sex when he wants sex. It doesn't matter what I want. :evil:



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31 Jul 2013, 6:14 pm

billiscool wrote:
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This should settle the debate once and for all. A social experiment was conducted where an attractive young woman asked 14 men to sleep with her, with a 50% success rate. You can see the video here:
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what would the rate be for an average looking women


Probably 30-ish percent.



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31 Jul 2013, 6:14 pm

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This should settle the debate once and for all


What are you trying to settle, and where is the debate?


Who can get laid the easiest.



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31 Jul 2013, 6:29 pm

The funny thing I found in the two videos is that all of the guys who were asked obviously thought that she had some ulterior motive ("I hope I'm not getting robbed" lol). Whereas all of the girls who were asked knew that he had no ulterior motive.



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31 Jul 2013, 6:45 pm

Kurgan wrote:
savvyidentity wrote:
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This should settle the debate once and for all


What are you trying to settle, and where is the debate?


Who can get laid the easiest.


well,shy women can get laid easier than shy men.



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31 Jul 2013, 6:49 pm

female prostitutes,escorts,and porn stars have the most easiest
in getting laid.



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31 Jul 2013, 7:08 pm

Venger wrote:
Jono wrote:
Also, even if it was easy women to get sex then that still doesn't explain why such behaviour should be shunned and why "slut" should be a dirty word, while the opposite is true for men, therefore it's still actually a double-standard.


It's much more difficult for guys, so it's more of an "accomplishment" of sorts. That's why guys don't get called sluts as easily.

Also, I suspect most people that refer to it as "double-standard" never even thought of the one-sided difficulty part of it. :roll:


Those guys are referred to as players.



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31 Jul 2013, 7:09 pm

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Who can get laid the easiest.


I wonder what the results would have been if the people in the videos had been on the spectrum.



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31 Jul 2013, 8:51 pm

billiscool wrote:
female prostitutes,escorts,and porn stars have the most easiest
in getting laid.
porn star would be an epic job for a man...


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31 Jul 2013, 9:25 pm

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porn star would be an epic job for a man...


Porn star is a horrible job for most men.


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31 Jul 2013, 10:27 pm

LookTwice wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
porn star would be an epic job for a man...


Porn star is a horrible job for most men.
care to elaborate?


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31 Jul 2013, 11:28 pm

seen the videos of the difference, seems pretty different on opposite ends. a guy is more awkward on asking than the woman.


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