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Marcia
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17 Oct 2013, 8:15 pm

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In various threads on WP, and other sites for autistic people, over the years that I've been here. People taking the question literally and giving a full and detailed response on how they are, not appreciating that a "fine" or "well" was all that was expected.


I must say, your giving very sh***y advice if you tell men that is how they should talk to women. I feel bad for your son.

You don't just say fine. You ask the women how she is doing too.


Oh, and by the way, that comment about my son was out of line.



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17 Oct 2013, 8:19 pm

Marcia wrote:

Oh, and by the way, that comment about my son was out of line.


I AM sorry that the comment hurt your feelings if it did. Based on what you said though he is not going to get good advice about things like this & I said how I felt.



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17 Oct 2013, 8:23 pm

lost561 wrote:
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Oh, and by the way, that comment about my son was out of line.


I AM sorry that the comment hurt your feelings if it did. Based on what you said though he is not going to get good advice about things like this & I said how I felt.


No it didn't hurt my feelings. It was irrelevant and out of line. What I have to say to you has nothing to do with my son.

The decent response would have been a simple, unqualified apology. Or indeed, no response at all, but a determination on your part not to mention my son in this context again.

Seeing as you have again expressed your thoughts about my son, I might as well say that at 11 years old he is smarter, more insightful and has a better grasp on how to communicate with people than you are and have.



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17 Oct 2013, 8:48 pm

Ok, he can probably edit out people's quotes better than you can too...

Thanks Marcia



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17 Oct 2013, 9:23 pm

stop the fighting, you both are right. There I said it.



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17 Oct 2013, 11:41 pm

This whole love and dating section of the site seems a waste of time, most of us are f****d. (not literally).



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18 Oct 2013, 4:06 am

I liked it better when the advice was to have a flash car and lots of money and keep throwing presents at the woman until she gives in. This way a woman only gets empty flattery, meh.

Perhaps if we were to make a lexicon of lost says = equals in real life, there would be far less problems?

I'll start

Lost says = normal NT feminine women
equals in real life = Bimbos and gold diggers



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18 Oct 2013, 8:52 am

Leafplant = getting a big tiger hug right now *hugs*
Moment = passed, the river moves on



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18 Oct 2013, 9:15 am

Tiger = forgot to set the DeLorean date correctly

Leafplant = accepts hug, what the heck

Thread = back to topic