Dancing is a great way to have fun with women.

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Being comfortable dancing and being good enough at it to not embarrass yourself is an important life skill. Practice by yourself in front of a mirror, and look online to steal other people's dance moves. Look at other men on the dance floor who are good dancers and imitate them.

The OP is right on! Every since I learned to dance, 9 out of 10 situations where a girl/woman showed some type of interest in me (even if was just friendly flirting) involved dancing in some form. Even successfully had a fling one time on a cruise, due to the fact that the girl liked Latin dancing, and I knew how. Overall, it's a great way of breaking the touch barrier; after all, you can't really dance with a partner without some form on appropriate body contact (hands on upper arm, holding hands, hands on back, etc.). You can get to closer, sexier dancing, like chest-to-chest, once you get more comfortable with each other. And if someone tell you "no hands!", don't feel shy about walking away on the spot. That person clearly knows nothing about partner dancing or dance etiquette, and I wouldn't give them the time of day.

...Or will both "creepzone" you at the same time. xD

Or moobs-to-boobs in some cases. xD

I usually (almost always) find the music or voices (people talking, not halucinations) too loud and everything just gets jumbled and I lose the connection with whoever I was supposed to be dancing with.

Works better with 4 or more women in the group.

When it's 2 women, they think you're looking for a threesome. This strategy almost never works with 2 women.

When it's 3 women, 2 gang up on the one that wants to take you home and talk her out of it.

Most women join and learn not just because they want to or because they enjoy it, but because they want to meet men. Every guy who starts learning is always there in order to meet or women or because their girlfriends talked them into it.

I have taught a handful of classes over the last 3 years where we were not short on guys. Only in one did we have more men than women. For that reason, I usually ask some of the guys from the level above to come early and help out.

What a load of frogturds. What fortune cookie did that burst from?

Dancing is what you make it, like everything else. I'm not entirely sure that everyone would benefit from dancing. It's like saying that everyone would benefit from elephant tickling, or meditation, or cheese rolling. And an awful lot of aspies aren't exactly blessed with litheness.

Each to their own.

I have never been able to understand rhythm or whatever helps people move to music seems completely random.

It's probably best to pick out a type of dance class that actually appeals to women in your age group. Square dancing ain't one of them lol.

I go to line dance classes every week and I'm the only woman there under 45.

I always tell people "If in doubt, salsa dancing. Everywhere has salsa dancing. It's sensual, it's sexy, it's fun. Go and learn to salsa!"

I actually don't like salsa, bachata and that kind of dancing because I hate do dance this way with guys that I don't consider attractive. For example, the one time a tried it I had to dance with a short, blonde guy that I totally didn't consider attractive. I found it really difficult to maintain the act of salsa dancing. It felt too intimate for me, blugh.

Men belly dancing wouldn't impress women here, at all.

Yes I can relate I tryed dancing with a mixed black woman once that was part black part white and part Asian and had green eyes and she didn't know how to dance at all. She ruined the dance for me but then I went and found another woman that was good at dancing.

^was this other woman all one part?











I slay myself

Being a good dancer is an excellent skill to have.