Every girl I meet...

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This may very well be the best advice OP is ever gonna get.

Women go through constant hormonal changes which affects their moods, their always like being on an emotional roller coaster ride to me...

Everyone has baggage, but women are less tolerant of it then men, for men are as seen as supposed to being more reliable strong and confident, the dominant and supportive, dependable. Nice is what women do for men, so when men are Nice back to them they can and do often take it as being clingy or weak. its a turn off for them, they want to feel they have earned their mans love and respect. Possessive women are mostly that way because of lack of self confidence, much due to that of their own emotions always being unsure because of ever changing hormones. they at times even confuse even them selves. although with women its kind of funny, the more you keep them at arms lengths the more they want to fight for you, but when your to easy they lose interest and get bitchy. Stop being "Nice".

Judging by this thread, the answer is no.

Did you ever think maybe you're the problem, not the women?

How do you know if a woman is incredibly posessive after having just met them, and what you even consider to be such?

My ex had a weird fetish,
She used to dress up as herself and act like a b***h.

I understand you have had bad experiences but there are good women out there. You're just feeling angered right now because things aren't looking up but they will eventually. Just stay positive and I'm sure you'll find someone.

I would start telling guys in real life it too but the guys at my college and who I'm friends with are not like this, because I don't wanna be friends with misogynist as*holes. Whereas this kind of spew is so prevalent on the internet that I wish I could tell every single one, because it's something all of them should consider. They don't trust women, they don't find them agreeable, they can't be friends with them, they actually consider them as inferior and at their disposal - why would they continue to want one of these subhumans? It's like if a KKK member was lurking around Oakland and then wondered why no one wants to hear him out. If someone dislikes something, then they should make sure not to like it too.

i don't think women are being sadistic to "exploit" a man's romantic desire. women aren't any more or less emotionally sadistic than men. players are actually proud of crushing girls after sleeping with them. some men brag about how much they can take advantage of a girl. people are people.
i had a really good guy friend once who helped me through the hell i was going through. eventually he developed feelings for me and i broke his heart. now i'm hated by half the people in my town because everyone knows and loves the guy. it's not my fault i wanted friendship, help, and kindness from another person who happened to want more than that while they were fully aware of the situation. nobody says anything about MEN who are friends with nice girls that want them. hmm, i wonder why that is...

By what I seen, man by nature try and seduce a womans interests through going out of his way for her as a show that he can be supportive and a good provider, women know this, and even though its not asked for its expected of men to do. then men felt jilted when after all he tries she shrugs off his efforts and moves on, the man feels used. where as a woman has no interest shouldn't be accepting his gratuities so as to mislead him. but I think its only natural many women take advantage of this.

consider bars, ask your self, what bar has a mens night where women can more cheaply buy the men a drink? its unheard of. but there are lots of ladies nights, so as to attract more females which in turn attracts more males.

Its about like women being so used to men being the perusers, while they get to pick and choose and turn down the ones they have no interest in. insulted at the men who try that she has no interest in while excited when its from a male she finds attractive. while men tend to go through a lot of rejection before finding one who would find interest in his advances. so of course men would become somewhat resentful of that.

Women are more likely to want to becomes friends with men then men with women because they have more options of men to pick and choose from. when a man gets jilted its more common practice, when a woman gets jilted look out its the end of the world, why? because their not used to being on that receiving end.

When a woman feels men have no interest in her, its she is disappointed its not the ones she finds interest in her self, ignoring others that do try. where otherwise men do notice the women that do try but many times feel they are being to easy because their so used to having to struggle to get a nice womans attentions. and if she is being that easy men worry of the female then having wondering eyes (sluttish so not mate material).

Being nice is what women do to attract men, so when a man is being too-nice its taken as a weakness as well as perhaps him being to needy and clingy and easy to take advantage of, which women find unattractive in males. a confident male is seen as not being needy or clingy. thats why the bad boys are so attractive to them instead of the nice guys. Thats why its considered acceptable and OK for a woman to seem a bit needy and clingy, but not a man. its a male/female thing.

Nice is what females do to attract males, so its not seen as vary masculine to females when a male is being too nice.

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figures he'd be trolling

where's cornflake when you need him

Ya know, this warrants thought. more then once have I barely glanced some womans way and got shot back with insults for even looking. women may consider that a harassment when its from the men they find unattractive esp when they get hit on so much by men. its their way of dismissing those they shallowly size up to being non mate materials at a glance and ensure those males don't hit on them. I never thought of it as a socio-biological thing but it makes sense. part of a females trait is that of being Nice to the men their attracted too, so it only makes sense their not going to be nice to those they don't find appealing. its a tool.

But what that does mean, is if you get shot down allot like that, your not all that attractive to women. even though its unfair to you. and it also means that if a woman can be that thoughtless and mean then once the honeymoon period is over the Niceness will wear off and her true colors would show and they would become that infamous heartless b***h men are always complaining about, so you wouldn't want them anyways.

Because the two genders have separate packs. They feel awkward around each other. Which is why love needs to be such a strong emotion.

That is really sad!

Hmmm, because all the nice ones are by me? Jk.

I hope you figure it out, I'm perfectly fine with women and how they act, so I can't help.

pretty much this, I have a pretty bad personality and there are a lot of people I cannot get along with but even I am able to find both friends and dates and have had actual relationships

if EVERY person you meet has the exact same reactions to you - possibly YOU are causing the interaction problems. Had you only said most or many I would not have a problem with this but you seem to just push the wrong buttons when you are trying to interact/date womyn. Take some classes or something (how to get along, not pickup classes)