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well,I hope not. that would suck.

Please don't think I'm judging you bill, because I'm not, but I'm willing to bet cold hard cash that you don't realise what a dick you seem to these women.

Hmmm...

"your husband wouldn't care if we hung out, he be for it"
"how about you have 2 boyfriends?"
"so, are you a mormon, into pologamy?"

I notice a slight discrepancy

Would it, though ?
Surely that depends on whose perspective you consider it from.

From the perspective of her (and also from the point of view of the guys who she's quite possibly hitting on)... wouldn't it just be a bit of fun, and something to do ?
I mean, they're so lucky that she can do that.... right ?

yeah,since were not in official relationship(my female friend) yes she
can hit on other guys,but I wouldn't like it.

she may not be my official girlfriend,but we
still hangout and kiss each other,if she got
a boyfriend,she would leave me,that would suck.

my ex gf before dump me.I don't want my
quasi-gf/best female friend/kissing buddy
to leave me.

Well now, it seems to me that if you're going to revel in the fact that you're not quite an item yet.... then it should be fair enough for her to have her way with all sorts of hunky specimens of men, too ... no ?

Of course, if that's not what you want then it might be a good idea to work on progressing things so that you are an 'official' couple.... for example, by not going chasing other women and remarking about how fortunate it is that you can do that. I mean, that only seems fair... right ?

yes,she can date other men,but I wouldn't like it.
she has every rights.but she my best female friend,kissing buddy.
if she leave me,that would suck.

I understand that not understanding empathy can be a symptom of spectrum disorders. In this case, I'd suggest carefully considering her feelings and where you stand with her. If she has no interest in being monogamous with you, I'd seriously ask yourself if you're willing to share her with other men. Not judging you if you are, but there are certain risks in that scenario. Also, is she emotionally vulnerable and looking for validation wherever she can find it? If so, I can't morally advocate being intimate with her.

Human emotions are complex and not always logical, but it's always helpful to practice empathy/compassion whenever you can. The more you do it, the easier it becomes.

Don't you think that she might possibly feel the same way about you flirting with/hitting on other girls, and potentially leaving her?

No common sense at all.

Some day I gotta have a long talk with that Bill....

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I think Bill needs to work on making this girl his girlfriend and being happy.

Remember, girls will be on your dick if your in a relationship. As soon as your single, they are like "eww, him."