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How can you read the first post ant not recommend seeking help?

I really don't think this is such a big deal.

Violent fantasies are not uncommon. The OP is concerned, I guess, that he has had these thoughts, but if he has taken no action, then I think it's perfectly normal.

Well maybe I come accross as a bit harsh on people who are excited at the idea of raping someone, but I view rape as the 3rd most serious crime in the world. High treason is worse than murder, and murder is worse than rape.

Even while I could not get a woman while I strongly wanted a woman for company, friendship and SEX I had the respect for females which would not allow me to force myself on one. I also had the self respect not to allow my self to drop to such a low level.

I take a dim view of rapists, I hold a view that if I can behave myself then why should they be allowed to commit these vile crimes. I think that rapists get too light a sentance when they are convicted, I think that the criminal justice system does not offer a punishment which a just reward for their degenerate actions.

Thoughts aren't actions. Thinking of rape doesn't equal rape.

When I started going through puberty at like 10 I sometimes had urges to rape girls I was around at school but I never acted on it of corse. The urges were related to hormones(high sex drive) & bad OCD that got hung-up on the idea; my OCD caused me to occasionally visualize myself doing it & other things kind of like a visual hallucination type thing. The rape stuff quit 1ce I started masturbating alot & my OCD changed/shifted about thing after I quit being a teen. I hadn't had any of those visual OCD things in aLONG time & I'm on meds for OCD nowadays. I'm a different person mentally in some ways than when I was a teen & the idea really freaks me out now.

Last edited by nick007 on 01 Feb 2014, 5:56 pm, edited 3 times in total.

The OP seems to know right from wrong. He does not seem to want to revel in others' rape stories/fantasies. He has not mentioned enjoying those thoughts/reactions. He specifically posted "doing something horrible", as in rape is horrible to him. Due to the fact he regards rape as horrible, one can conclude it's probably more likely he would have remorse and is not a sociopath. He specifically mentioned he hasn't had this experience since he has had sex. Depending on how long ago that was, a significant period of time could have passed by now. If not, this may still be an issue, true. However, I know what it's like to have all sorts of sick crap enter your brain as if it's on autopilot. However, I would NEVER harm someone in that way, EVER.

I don't persecute thought crimes, but I'm also not saying that thoughts can't be an indicator of future action. All I'm saying if the OP has respected the use of the word no, and trusts himself not to take advantage of a person under the influence, then he should be fine. A large percentage of people report knowing their rapist. That's why I asked the questions specifically about alcohol, as rapists overwhelmingly use that as a tool to carry out the rape.

As long as someone isn't actively having these experiences and/or enjoying rape stories, I find no reason to conclude this person needs mental help. If he didn't trust himself, though, of course I would recommend it.

When I have been in stressful situations I have started looking for objects that can be used as weapons. I think about what I could do with them. There is never an intended victim - it is the act of violence itself that I think about.

To answer your question, OP, in the most literal sense, yes I've had similar thoughts, but not to the degree of analysis you've described. I think that everybody, upon seeing an attractive person alone, sometimes wonders on some level what he/she is up to, ow ow. Certainly I've imagined what it would take to get her alone, and I'll grudgingly admit to envisioning less than appropriate fantasies of what I would do, if only she would become my personal slave. And like nick007, I haven't had these thoughts since I was a teenager. But occasionally I wish I was Bruce Almighty with the power to lift up women's skirts ^.^

Nah. I mean sure I've had rape fantasies before, I've had all kinds of fantasies in my head but I wouldn't want to actually rape a woman. I don't think about women I just see on the street either, that's definitely a sign your mental health needs improvement...

Check the link in my previous post, that's the component of difference between us and rapists. Rapists get aroused by the idea of forced sex.




She actually said she got raped like this and liked it, she's also into bdms.

I think these fantasies are more common among the population though, and it may takes into a consent form of rape fantasies, like BDSM. BDMS is all about rape-simulation and forced sex (regardless of the tools), I looked into erotic online communities and I've noticed that women are more likely to be into 'submissive/victim/slave' role in it than 'dominant/slave', I personally see no appeal in it either way.

Georges Sodini always thought of killing women, and he ended up killing some for real.

I wonder if the OP has some hatred toward women in general.

Quite aware of that. Wasn't aware this was the "State the Obvious Common Knowledge" thread.

It is not an obvious common knowledge, people know little about the rapist "sexuality". And some radical feminists believe that most men have a required rooted mindset to be rapists, that's not true tho.

According to my studies, most men are expected to have a subconscious rape psychology, but it has be triggered by abusive female peers. If a man has a rape psychology, feminists can blame themselves for it.

Yep most of them are sociopaths.

I want to be verbally abusive to you for making a stupid comment like that but I'm afraid you would become a rapist and blame me.