This isn't going to work out ! :(

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I just wanted to say STOP WORRYING ABOUT THE HAIR! Why oh why do men put themselves through all the torture of worrying about hair loss? They seem to worry about hair loss almost as much as they worry about penis size.

Personally, as a female, I don't mind it when men start to go bald. Unless the balding man is particularly unattractive I usually associate the balding with manliness. That is because hair loss is normally something that only happens to men, not to woman. So if I see a balding man, I tend to look at the thinning / disappearing hair and think: "oh yes. Hair loss. That confirms he's a man."

Kind of like if you see a girl with saggy boobs. The girl might be worrying about the sagginess, but all you see are the boobs. You might nod to yourself and say in a pleased fashion: "oh yes. Boobs. That means she's a woman."

I can't speak for all women but I suspect that most women share my view that they don't really mind at all when men's hair starts to thin. It seems to be men themselves who are generating all this obsession about not losing their hair. Or maybe it's the media. Wherever the worry is coming from, STOP WORRYING.

Look, we are all human beings, and men have hair that starts to thin, and ladies have boobs that start to sag. So what? Personally I don't care, and hopefully your girlfriend will be one of those girls who doesn't care, either.

Actually a lot of men really suit being bald. The totally shaven look can look really, really sexy and macho on the right kind of guy.

Anyway if this girl is your long-distance girlfriend, presumably that means she's fallen in love with you because of who you are. Women fall in love based more on emotions and the things men say to us. So if she's in love with you already, that means she likes you. A lot.

Stop worrying that your body isn't "good enough" for her. When you finally meet her, just be happy. If you keep injecting uncertainty and self-doubt into all your interactions and conversations with her, you are going to end up sabotaging the relationship yourself.

Good thing god gabe people morals so they won't judge you. If you want to tell god how pissed you are, I can show you to the first leader of the army of heaven. His confidence may offend people but he's a nice guy.