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14 Feb 2014, 2:01 am

glad you worked it out somewhat.

I don't get strip clubs and i don't want to go to one, had have past friends want to drag me to one, i dont like the ideal of it at all >.<



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14 Feb 2014, 5:31 am

If he wants to go to a strip club on valentines day, let him go. But tell him to make damn sure he tips the dancer well cause that one lap dance he got is all he's gonna be getting from now on!


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14 Feb 2014, 9:27 am

I really don't understand why a guy would rather get teased by some random strangers than hook up with their girlfriend.

Anyone?



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14 Feb 2014, 9:36 am

Bodyles wrote:
I really don't understand why a guy would rather get teased by some random strangers than hook up with their girlfriend.

Anyone?

It seems to me that it's a matter of becoming complacent and taking what/who you have for granted.



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14 Feb 2014, 10:17 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I don't understand him.


That's why girls want you to escort them through dark alleys. (It's a compliment. Don't ask for an explanation ;))



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14 Feb 2014, 10:40 am

I've been on a couple dates to aquariums... Spending time with a lovely woman who's company I dearly enjoy while surrounded by sharks and other marine life in tanks has got to be as close to paradise as possible while still alive.

Sitting in a noisy joint, packed in with a bunch of drunk horny guys at their worst... That sounds like absolute hell.



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14 Feb 2014, 11:34 am

Yuzu wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I don't understand him.


That's why girls want you to escort them through dark alleys. (It's a compliment. Don't ask for an explanation ;))



I would understand if he was single, I am not that sexually innocent.
But it's like seeing a tasty looking cake without the option of tasting it; why one would like to look at a cake in some store while he/she has one in the fridge?



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14 Feb 2014, 12:11 pm

Deuterium wrote:
Bodyles wrote:
I really don't understand why a guy would rather get teased by some random strangers than hook up with their girlfriend.

Anyone?

It seems to me that it's a matter of becoming complacent and taking what/who you have for granted.


Intellectually, I guess I can understand that concept, but viscerally it makes no sense to me, probably never will.



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14 Feb 2014, 12:19 pm

Bodyles wrote:
Intellectually, I guess I can understand that concept, but viscerally it makes no sense to me, probably never will.

It's okay, you're not alone in that, and I tend to feel that this lack of being able to personally relate to the appeal in this kind of situation reflects well on us, rather than being a deficiency we should be concerned about. Frankly, I think we're the ones without the deficiency in this case.



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14 Feb 2014, 1:02 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Yuzu wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I don't understand him.


That's why girls want you to escort them through dark alleys. (It's a compliment. Don't ask for an explanation ;))



I would understand if he was single, I am not that sexually innocent.
But it's like seeing a tasty looking cake without the option of tasting it; why one would like to look at a cake in some store while he/she one in the fridge?


In that case, I'm withdrawing my comment :(



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14 Feb 2014, 1:09 pm

Yuzu wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Yuzu wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I don't understand him.


That's why girls want you to escort them through dark alleys. (It's a compliment. Don't ask for an explanation ;))



I would understand if he was single, I am not that sexually innocent.
But it's like seeing a tasty looking cake without the option of tasting it; why one would like to look at a cake in some store while he/she one in the fridge?


In that case, I'm withdrawing my comment :(


lol What? I don't get you. Pm me if you want.



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14 Feb 2014, 3:12 pm

Deuterium wrote:
Bodyles wrote:
Intellectually, I guess I can understand that concept, but viscerally it makes no sense to me, probably never will.

It's okay, you're not alone in that, and I tend to feel that this lack of being able to personally relate to the appeal in this kind of situation reflects well on us, rather than being a deficiency we should be concerned about. Frankly, I think we're the ones without the deficiency in this case.


Maybe, but sometimes I feel like things like this are part of the whole 'guy' thing I've never gotten.
With the sports and the cars and the working out and the strippers and the male bonding and all that.

I don't necessarily think it's a deficiency per se, but I guess I just feel a bit left out because I don't really understand any of that stuff.
Ah well.



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14 Feb 2014, 3:18 pm

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"Men are such visual creatures."

That's because most ladies look sooooo good :D


I think you might be begging the question, mate.

Anyway, you're being reasonable in not wanting your boyfriend to go to a strip club on his birthday. Being his birthday, his friends will probably want to get him a lap dance. Having revenge by going to a Chip'N'Dales doesn't sound healthy for the relationship, either. His friends should accept there are things he can't do now that he's with someone. Just my 2 cents.


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14 Feb 2014, 5:49 pm

OT: Cool tesseract avatar onewithstrange.



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14 Feb 2014, 7:03 pm

"But it's like seeing a tasty looking cake without the option of tasting it; why one would like to look at a cake in some store while he/she has one in the fridge?"

But what if you ate that same cake in the fridge for every day for a year?



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14 Feb 2014, 11:14 pm

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But what if you ate that same cake in the fridge for every day for a year?

You committed to that 'cake' because it was your favorite 'cake', and if you want to try another one you either need to let go of the first, or get over it and realize that the one you have is wonderful and that you don't get everything you want.