Aspie traits or plain indecent?

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MadeUnderground
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27 Feb 2014, 2:36 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
He's being himself.

I say go back to guys who pretend etiquette in front of girls.

Those are just minor silly flaws; and don't expect living with a guy without some of such annoyances, we guys are 'pigs' lol.

True characters flaws like violence, disloyalty, alcoholism, extreme laziness...etc that you should worry about, those 'flaws' you described are nothing.


Well, my exes never showed this kind of behaviour so appearantly there are men that do have manners. Especially in the beginning stages of dating, where you are trying to show the best version of yourself to the person you like, I would expect a guy to control these kinds of disgusting behaviours.

Putting your hand into your crotch/pants and then 10 seconds later taking that hand into the bowl of crips that we are BOTH eating from... just gross and no manners.

But appearantly this is not an aspie trait.



When people do things like this, I will usually say something like, "Ew, seriously? I'm eating from this too, that's disgusting." and sometimes if its' really nasty I'll push the bowl away and be like, "I'm good now."
Seriously, that's nasty. I don't care if people think it's rude to react the way I do but I don't do that s**t to people so I don't expect them to do it to me. Yes some people don't notice but after one, "Ew, seriously?" they'll apologize and refrain from doing it again, to which I will say, "It's all right, I know you weren't paying attention, but come on, it's pretty gross."

And to the guys saying that guys are just naturally pigs. Maybe. I've lived with both male and females who did equally nasty things. Some people just weren't taught manners, I guess, so the only way they learn is by having someone tell them what they did was gross. Most of the time people will change, sometimes people won't, whatever.
Most gross things I can live with by changing what I do. Instead of sharing a bowl of chips, I'll have my own bowl, etc.
I've seen people just sit there and put their fingers in their nose for a good 5 minutes.. You know, just scraping around up there for the booger, then flick it. I've seen people do it and then reach for the shared bowl of food. I've seen a guy who regularly sneezed and blew his nose into his shirt so much that snot started gushing through the linen of it.. Then he hugged me.

I think your best bet Cafe is getting your own bowl of chips for yourself. Chances are like most guys I know, he doesn't wash his hands after taking a piss and he was handling his junk then anyway. Some people just get used to it and are like eff it, that's what my immune system is for, others may get their own bowl or just not eat.

My what some would consider nasty habit is leaving my dirty boxers in the bathroom after taking a shower.



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27 Feb 2014, 4:01 pm

MadeUnderground wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
He's being himself.

I say go back to guys who pretend etiquette in front of girls.

Those are just minor silly flaws; and don't expect living with a guy without some of such annoyances, we guys are 'pigs' lol.

True characters flaws like violence, disloyalty, alcoholism, extreme laziness...etc that you should worry about, those 'flaws' you described are nothing.


Well, my exes never showed this kind of behaviour so appearantly there are men that do have manners. Especially in the beginning stages of dating, where you are trying to show the best version of yourself to the person you like, I would expect a guy to control these kinds of disgusting behaviours.

Putting your hand into your crotch/pants and then 10 seconds later taking that hand into the bowl of crips that we are BOTH eating from... just gross and no manners.

But appearantly this is not an aspie trait.



When people do things like this, I will usually say something like, "Ew, seriously? I'm eating from this too, that's disgusting." and sometimes if its' really nasty I'll push the bowl away and be like, "I'm good now."
Seriously, that's nasty. I don't care if people think it's rude to react the way I do but I don't do that s**t to people so I don't expect them to do it to me. Yes some people don't notice but after one, "Ew, seriously?" they'll apologize and refrain from doing it again, to which I will say, "It's all right, I know you weren't paying attention, but come on, it's pretty gross."

And to the guys saying that guys are just naturally pigs. Maybe. I've lived with both male and females who did equally nasty things. Some people just weren't taught manners, I guess, so the only way they learn is by having someone tell them what they did was gross. Most of the time people will change, sometimes people won't, whatever.
Most gross things I can live with by changing what I do. Instead of sharing a bowl of chips, I'll have my own bowl, etc.
I've seen people just sit there and put their fingers in their nose for a good 5 minutes.. You know, just scraping around up there for the booger, then flick it. I've seen people do it and then reach for the shared bowl of food. I've seen a guy who regularly sneezed and blew his nose into his shirt so much that snot started gushing through the linen of it.. Then he hugged me.

I think your best bet Cafe is getting your own bowl of chips for yourself. Chances are like most guys I know, he doesn't wash his hands after taking a piss and he was handling his junk then anyway. Some people just get used to it and are like eff it, that's what my immune system is for, others may get their own bowl or just not eat.

My what some would consider nasty habit is leaving my dirty boxers in the bathroom after taking a shower.


I've sit once with a girl who makes sauce explosions while eating hamburger (she puts toooo much mayo and mustard) and she licks the liquid droppings with her finger off the place and even the table. :? :ew:

In Saudi Arabia I've had to have lunch with some locals (work partners), there were no forks, no spoons, no nylon gloves, no chairs even and all the men were eating the Kabseh (a rice meal with chicken or camel) from the same huge plate, they were literally squeezing the rice to make it the shape of a small ball before eating it, I was "stuffed" quickly.