Where can i find a AS girl at???

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Now that is downright bigoted and discriminating. I have friends without disorders, charming, nice and fun to cuddle. They don't want buttsex, they just want to have fun.


And for the record as an Aspie girl I would never date someone like you. You're shallow, close-minded and bent on recruiting people for your imaginary church.

Wow, and I thought I was cynical.

If anything what he said sounds almost sexist, if not.

Unknown: Do you want to know why you have trouble getting a woman? Looking at your hate-filled posts would be a good start.

Well duh, he hates MTV and that encompasses all the people who don't have disorders. It's like as if we're superior for having a different state of mind

Hatred and bigotry begets hatred and bigotry, Unknown. I have been diagnosed with Asperger's from a very young age. Do you hate me because I have pointed out the reason why you aren't getting anywhere with women? You may have been badly mistreated by some bad people but that's just those bad people. Not everyone is like that.

I know many people, both with and without Asperger's Syndrome and everywhere in between and to be honest it makes very little difference to me. It's what they're like underneath that counts.

IMO, looking for an aspie girl is one of the worst things you can do when looking for love

You are looking at what the person has, not who they are. Do you think I was pursuing someone else with AS? No, I was just having a nice time with a friend when I realized that the feelings between us were very great. Had I been putting standards such as that then I would have never found love :/

Also how can one expect to have love when all they do is hate?

I can never relate to NT's,thats why i want a AS girl,not a NT girl.

Funny, it seems you can't relate to me either. Maybe you should stop trying to hard and not base standards around disorders.

All the NT girls my age want a manly-manly man,and i'm too nerdy.

He's not going to see it, is he? It's nothing to do with being "nerdy", it's your own prejudices and intolerance that's the problem. Remove those, stop trying so hard and start being a bit more open and you might get somewhere.

NT girls won't accept me for who i am.

NT girls want big,strong guys,i'm too puny and skinny.

This isn't directed at Unknown, but to those currently wagging the finger at all the "hate."

Sure, some of the things said haven't been thoughtful, or kind. Did you just stop there, or think about what the possible sources could be?

He's stated he has trouble relating to NT females. Maybe this is because of the perceived NT female stereotype, maybe it is from personal experience. Could the hate possibly stem from frustration? That isn't to say hate is good, but he could simply be misguided.

Past that, what's wrong if he'd like to find an AS female currently. That may not always be the case. He's using that as someone who was looking for someone else with a specific similar interest would. Is it as wise of a decision as looking for a specific similar interest? Perhaps not, but that's in some ways a subjective question, so it isn't my (or any person's) place to say.

I'm not saying he has reacted in the best way, but you've been passive-aggressively attacking his question from the start of your replies. He didn't respond aggressively / "hatefully" until after that.

EDIT: I should address this as well.



You don't know this to be the case. It is unfair to make a generalization for ALL NTs, just as it would be unfair for someone to generalize all people with AS. Take a look around this board, there's a great variety of people. If you simply are looking for someone with a similar background / set of potential interests, that's one thing. If you are doing it because of a generalization, one that both marginalizes them and is underrepresenting you, that's another case entirely.

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On the contrary; not every girl wants the same thing and it seems you are just judging them on a social stereotype. How do you know what they want? It sounds like you barely know a thing about girls.

Proof???

I'll be back tomorrow.