I wish I knew how to flirt

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is your okc profile match your name here?

yes, but I don't have a photo on there, if that's what you were after

you seem cute and pretty. maybe more pictures might help. I liked the one where you were with the cat.

as for you're guy maybe try places like, bookstores, Starbucks, libraries. Though the problem I see is the type of guy you want probably isn't super social like i'm not so approaching girls is hard.

maybe flirt by asking about a book they looking at or reading, if its something you like too it could turn into a fun conversation.

nope and I think i've already seen you but could be mistaken. I went to see your "offputing profile"
while it seems kinda fake, it also comes across as silly and fun. I'd be tempted to message with an attempt to be silly. like " hows you're attempt at photosynthetise going, have you overcome the problem yet. whats it like not being a plant " I wouldn't expect a reply, but i've done so before, not much to lose but slight chance of those people maybe being real. I didn't find it off putting actually a little attractive, but i have the problem of finding silliness attractive. maybe the guy did too but is more shy then me, though its a possibility its just a spam bot or some random guy wanting stuff.

not having a picture isn't a disqualify for me, personality and mind trumps looks, but I'm programed weird.

^ thank you for that sweet assessment. But to be fair, you already know me from here, so your opinion of my profile is a bit biased. But sure, I don't mind when people message me just to have a fun conversation, that can be cool. Anyway, that guy has now blocked me, I cannot see him on my visitors list, so that saves that problem.

yes true, it gives proof that you exist, which otherwise would be a mystery, but then again i messaged a profile that only had a picture of a lady with a horse head. clearly a fake and proved so by the return message.

you're welcome I guess. was the intent of the profile to be silly?
to be honest I find you more upstanding and fancy on here. i can't think of the better world so sorry if that comes across bad its not meant to be, just the correct word is evading me ugh. so if silly was you're intent that's a different side to you.
I guess that's cause this is a more serious place though, I don't often act like my silly playful self here much.
if your profile kept the silly stuff and had more about you that I found in common, I'd likely over come the intimidation of you're beauty and message. playfulness and silliness are the one thing that overrides my fear and instincts to hide.

i thought they only got removed from the visitors list if we hid or block them, interesting.

The profile exists purely so that I can check out other people's profiles. No other reason. I am not looking to meet someone.

Amma go nao and feel important about mah upstanding, fancy ways.




You don't have to message me on OKC though, you talk to me here all the time anyway?! (when I said you were cute a few days back, I meant it in a supportive way, like your mom's friend might say it, I hope you didn't get the wrong idea)

nope not at all. there is a bunch of reasons I wouldn't consider you in that way. non of them are bad on your part though. one of the biggest being distance(never doing that again) as for the cute I figured like others it was a nice lie. People often tell nice lies to be supportive or make others feel better. I've never been called good looking in a sincere way. on a whole i don't get sincere compliments, so i'm quite use to in a sad way .

cool and phew, I'd hate there to be a misunderstanding with people getting upset.

And now, dear OP, please accept my apologies for derailing your thread and good luck with your search!

That's what I'm supposed to infer? I've seen a lot profiles like that and they make me expect smaller social gatherings and conversations about literature.