Being literal and thinking too far into left field

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The_Face_of_Boo
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30 Mar 2014, 9:48 am

Message him, he might be willing to be your buff toyboy

Maybe he's good in laundry and chores too.



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30 Mar 2014, 10:43 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Message him, he might be willing to be your buff toyboy

Maybe he's good in laundry and chores too.



It was you wasn't it! Are you trying to chat me up under false pretenses Boo? tsk tsk :P



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30 Mar 2014, 1:47 pm

Translated -
I'm looking for a good time, want to give you a good time, but open to the idea of going monogamous with the right person if they come along.

That's how I read it anyway.


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30 Mar 2014, 3:18 pm

leafplant wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Message him, he might be willing to be your buff toyboy

Maybe he's good in laundry and chores too.



It was you wasn't it! Are you trying to chat me up under false pretenses Boo? tsk tsk :P


You're having wishful ideas again.



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30 Mar 2014, 3:26 pm

I think it's entirely possible for someone to be educated and write like that.

But I find that style of writing so awful and off-putting. Particularly in a profile, perhaps less in a text message. It just says lazy to me.



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30 Mar 2014, 5:21 pm

Perhaps it says he's too extrovert.



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30 Mar 2014, 7:42 pm

elkclan wrote:
I think it's entirely possible for someone to be educated and write like that.

But I find that style of writing so awful and off-putting. Particularly in a profile, perhaps less in a text message. It just says lazy to me.


Precisely. If you're going to take the time to sign up for a dating site, jump through all their registration hoops, post pictures, and write a profile, why not take the extra 10-15 seconds and spell-check the doggone thing?



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30 Mar 2014, 7:50 pm

leafplant wrote:
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Eureka13 wrote:
Everyone who goes to college has to pass English 101. Does it just not stick with some people?


well my college just had a bare min requirement only needed writing 121 and they don't require perfection.
I imagine like any other skill, it dissipates with lack of use. I don't write papers every day. I haven't written a paper in years. I use to speak German too. I never planned or like to write. to maintain my grammar would require someone to teach me it on a daily basis. I just feel my time is better spent on doing stuff that is more likely to get me a job. If I had a better brain that worked right I would be better :(

smarts are a tough thing for me. I'm highly intelligent, but I'm just not into stuff people consider intelligent fields like:righting, science, math, etc. I guess i lack book smarts(probably from my reading difficulty) I'm good at learning stuff and passing school.

people who are turned off or hate those who lack perfect grammar are a turn off for me so it works out lol. There are far more important things in life then grammar and spelling.

for me I was held back from advanced writing cause my disorder, I did take one regular writing class due to a fluke and passed it so it wasn't that I couldn't just they assumed I couldn't same with them saying I couldn't learn German.

out of curiously. If I notice his errors and they bother me a bit, but my grammar is so bad(as I've been told) where does that place me? can there not be people who just have decent or ok spelling and grammar or are we all seen as the same by the perfectionists?


I think that the lack of care people show when posting publicly sloppy writing is interpreted by others as sloppiness in general as well as lack of developed interest in writing, reading and associated intellectual pursuits. This will then translate into general incompatibility as you have already deduced.

From my personal point of view, your writing is cogent enough to convey that you are someone who thinks about more than where his next Big Mac is coming from but perhaps lacks further education or has developmental issues such as dyslexia etc. that make it difficult to express himself eloquently in writing.

There are many levels of ability out there and people have varying levels of acceptance and tolerance for others.

For me, it's often a case of - hm, I wonder if this is what kids consider cool these days; like what Nick wrote above for example and what took me a while to decipher, lol.



thanks, while it might not look like it I do care and work hard at it. I have to Google stuff sometimes cause firefox's spell check doesn't catch all. I seem to have memory problems that are concerning to me, like I see a world i wrote and I'm like that's not right but then after looking it up it is. I can end up spending 2 minutes trying to fix a word I spelled right. Then there is the "i" thing that's just fixing bad habits. I got so use to other spell checks auto correcting it on the iphone that I don't bother with it on computer. ugh. I guess this is why it really gets to me when people tease me about it. I'm already freaking out about my grammar/spelling problems, and worried I'm going wake up one day and not remember things. I don't need some guy to constantly point it out and say i have poorer grammar then a 5th grader or foreigner. :(
not anyone here, some guy on another forum.



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30 Mar 2014, 8:51 pm

Sly, you write better than the majority of the profiles I see on OKC, and that's just people in my age range!



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30 Mar 2014, 11:50 pm

People who aren't very bright don't often realize that they aren't very bright. "Educated" could mean any number of things in his mind.