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The_Face_of_Boo
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07 Apr 2014, 6:28 pm

Misslizard wrote:
Just curious,what's the average height in Lebanon?


No idea but I am sure it's lower (all of MEA) than the US.



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07 Apr 2014, 7:45 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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I an f****, I am the shortest guy in the group. lol

My roommate is taller and more muscular than me



Your roommate was probably behind you :lol:.

Thats what i used to think last time, with him i can tell no



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12 Apr 2014, 9:56 am

MXH wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
MXH wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I an f****, I am the shortest guy in the group. lol

My roommate is taller and more muscular than me



Your roommate was probably behind you :lol:.

Thats what i used to think last time, with him i can tell no


Maybe thet are gossping, maybe.... I dunno, don't always assume the best.



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12 Apr 2014, 12:18 pm

My best assumption is that you appear more confident around your friends. You take comfort in their presence so you find it easier to open up a dialog therefore your true personality presents itself. Also it might be less intimidating for the females to not have the one on one situation immediately. I know when I was younger I had a real hard time to look at people in general, especially a guy I was interested in, but if he and I were around friends it made it a lot easier to bear.


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12 Apr 2014, 12:21 pm

Archdevilius wrote:
The prospect that you might belong to a social circle or hierarchy is a more desirous prospect over being a lone wolf for those who seek social cohesion or approval.

I'm not saying all seek social cohesion, some do go for the lone wolves but those ones are rare. You're lucky to have made a friend or someone who helps you to blend into the world. Most of us don't have real life friends or can't make them thus making it hard to fit in at work, school or anywhere we go for that matter. Even if we do make them, we can't maintain them and being part of a social circle scares most because of betrayal, gossip, bullying, teasing or some other hurtful past time that lingers which makes it even harder to let their guard down.

Most Autistic males lack social skills, social value and in some cases a steady income, working on any three of those is a positive step in the right direction but it depends on the person.


I went for a lone wolf, being a lone wolf myself I found it very appealing.


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12 Apr 2014, 12:28 pm

MXH wrote:
It seems that being around people makes women more interested in me.


Makes sense to me, based on my life experiences.