Rigor wrote:
How old is your friend/the aspie? That sounds like something I might try 5-6 years ago or something.
Nowadays when I have a crush I go out of my way to not make eye contact with or talk to them unless they do so with me first.
I'd also agree with this, I've learned to be more discreet with experience.
Also, I think for most people a crush is more of a fling and nothing serious, so you don't really know unless you ask them directly. While for others its more deep, and obvious.