Lost interest in dating

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^^^ that was a really horrible read. No wonder I'm 43 and still single. Alot of that stuff I do not like, think like, or do. That read is not true for everyone. It reads out like one big game.

Hmmm...

I think if I start to identify some key points about my character, I can therefore find what might be the best match for me, i.e. what to look for...

Character Points:
- active guy, likes to be outdoors yet also likes to stay in for the night
- quiet and shy, yet also outgoing in certain situations
- very caring, likes to help people, i.e. help find a ride home, listen to problems and try to assist them
- kind of nerdy, plays video games and reads comics/manga
- I'm honest, I believe in transparency

That's the most I can think of right now. Would it be better to find someone similar to me or someone a little different?

My comment on the article is I don't like it and disappointed. I hate the way people bond together for those reasons. It has to be sincere, honest, true and realistic. I can't love someone by fooling myself nor I don't want my partner to do the same for me. As of now, I don't want to get into any romantic relationship, just platonic until I can find a way, if there is, to avoid such nonsense.

wow..long article.

Sums up to this,

People are always looking for the better deal