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sly279
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04 Sep 2014, 3:37 am

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Ah, I see. I'm from Russia so here being a leftist means support of Putin's dictatorship.

Yeah, I like guns. Newer shot from any but as part of military history and politics :-) that's nice.

We were together for three years, nice time. Then I found next girl, and then left her after 2 yrs. I have no regret on what was before - just want to find out what to do now. I met both on forums but now I'm not so lucky there.


ah russia. I don't begin to know anything about russian women. I don't know much about us women either.

how did you manage 3 years if you were so different?

I enjoy shooting, but its also cause they are mechanical. I like cleaning them(as long as its not too many at once) and taking them apart. learning how different ones work and such.

I use to want to visit russia, i don't think i would with the current stuff though. how did you meet them on forums? i don't get how people do that. o.O



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04 Sep 2014, 4:39 am

sly279 wrote:
ah russia. I don't begin to know anything about russian women. I don't know much about us women either.

how did you manage 3 years if you were so different?

I enjoy shooting, but its also cause they are mechanical. I like cleaning them(as long as its not too many at once) and taking them apart. learning how different ones work and such.

I use to want to visit russia, i don't think i would with the current stuff though. how did you meet them on forums? i don't get how people do that. o.O


Russian women are pretty the same however they are more mercantile - this is not surprise cause average salary outside Moscow is near 300-400E/mo and prices are as high as in Germany or France and they want to live good, have life they see in romantic movies.

We were not so different when we started to date. But last year she became more and more far from me, started to criticize my dress, my hair style, my charaster. And finally she joined leftist movement.

On forums I had not common siuation so I'm not sure if it'd help you. First one was the forum of one youth movement where I had at that time some authority and girl wanted to join it. Then we become friends soon and so on. We were very similar on our hobbies and beliefs for that time.

Second time it was forum of my media project, and girl just wanted to talk to "that cool guy who leads it". Funny. Anyway we started chatting via ICQ, she had troubles at that time and she was living 500 miles from my city but I tried to support he as I ever could. Then we meet in real and soon we were living together.

So both time it was not my conversation or pickup skills but just my social status and maybe intellect which was high enough for them.