Yuzu wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Yuzu wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Yuzu wrote:
I'm surprised anyone reply to a message saying just "hi". That's considered a big no no. Try to come up with a message asking about their interests in 2 or 3 sentences. And don't compliment on their looks.
If a very good-looking super hot single guy with very good profile and with a lot of common interests/music/compatibility with you sends you a first message as just "hi", won't you reply with a hi too?
Note: if you say No = you are lying.
Well yeah, but it's extremely rare for guys on online dating sites to be that hot and interesting.
I have been turned off by guys whom I was mildly interested in, because they sent me those lazy messages. So even if you think you're all that, it's better to put some effort in writing a better message than "hi".
Why should I? I get a reply anyway.
In real life people start with a hi, not with an essay intro. lol
^ I thought you wrote more than "hi" on OKC.
There is no need for an intro essay, that's what your profile is for
It's not the same as hitting someone in a bar either so you gotta say something more than hi that makes them want to engage in conversation. Or your message will be buried in all other similar dumb messages.
When she finds the guy good looking and interesting for her, she will reply anyway and a conversation will follow whether his first message was one word or not.
This assertion that a guy should follow this rule of "asking about something in her profile" is a fake and posing behavior.
It's like how some guys act in gym and pretend they are giving "help" to that cute girl - because by "coincidence" they noticed she needs help somewhere - riiight
, It's amazing how these same ones don't help the elders there.
Yes, i know, you ladies are so used to sitcoms, we all know this scene when the guy pretends he is interested in the book she's reading just to open a conversation with her.... awww so romantic, cute... and fake.
The guy who just tells her "hi" is being more genuine, believe me at that.