33 signs a girl DOESNT LIKE YOU
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Sorry. I only laugh if something is funny, or if I'm nervous.
I'm not always very comfortable with physical contact. Really, I'm not comfortable with physical contact until we've been together a while.
That can also happen if one of us has bad breath or if you no concept of personal space or if your concept of personal space is not the same as mine. I know that if I like you, Murphy's Law says you must approach me after I've had a garlic onion bagel and a black coffee, but why do you insist on following that law, then Jaywalk across three streets?
I'm OK with hugs if I initiate them. I mostly initiate them when a person looks like they could use one, and I always ask first, because some people just don't like being hugged.
Some of us don't have a lot of friends. Most of mine don't live near enough for regular get-togethers. The ones I have are friends, but more like acquaintances as far as I'm concerned. I moved here for work.
Or she's actually too busy to hang out with you.
I'm socially awkward, and you're the guy. The old rules that nobody follows anymore say it's your job to invite me out on a specific date and set the time. Because I'm so socially awkward, I'd be thrilled if a guy did this, even though I'm not very old-fashioned.
Now I have to be coordinated when I touch my hair? Can I hire a choreographer for this? Because otherwise, it's just going to be a big mess. Isn't it enough that I coordinated my shoes with my purse? That should really count for something.
Yes. If I am currently with someone, I'm not looking for new applicants. But that might just be me. Men and women both juggle. OK, I guess I am a little old-fashioned after all.
No, because when I actually like you, I can barely string two words together. My friends and acquaintances think this is funny, especially when I start turning colors.
Wait, do you want a woman, or a clown? If you're really looking to date Krusty, I'd really like to know. I'm not looking to date someone who's looking to date Krusty.
I thought I was good when I asked you how you were? Isn't that what that question is supposed to establish?
Again, I'm socially awkward and tongue-tied around you if I like you. I have a tough enough time holding up my end of a conversation with my best friend since high school, and we have a lot of shared memories.
If that was me, sorry. I was probably focusing on something I had to do. Another thought though, maybe you should wear something brighter next time. You know, like male birds do.
Some girls do that to see if you'll get jealous. Unless you get off on headgames, you're probably better off without them.
16. She says that you're a good friend or emphasizes friendship in a conversation.
I guess that's a sign she thinks someone needs convincing. She might be trying to convince herself though.
She could have some major self-esteem issues, like, bigger than anyone I know. You're probably better off.
Stay away from those.
"Not looking for a boyfriend" usually is nice-girl code for "not interested." The other though, could go either way. She really might not have time for a boyfriend. Follow up clue: does she regularly hang out with her friends?
I prefer text.
Again, awkward and tongue-tied.
Are you sure you're texting her during her waking hours when she's not in church or at work?
I do, in part because I have no idea how to flirt back, which makes me uncomfortable. I also apparently accidentally flirt.
How long have you been looking at her? Do you know this woman from Alice, or are you just staring at some stranger in a purple dress? Oh, by the way, did I mention that my facial expressions often don't match what I'm feeling, and have caused a lot of grief in my life due to being misinterpreted?
I had an account on Facebook a long time ago. Technically, I still have one. I just never log on anymore.
To be fair, you should try to say something interesting and not pick a distracting environment. Then again, if you do that, I'll probably just um or uh or not say anything at all and try not to look directly at you.
I never go to any.
Stay away from those too.
I've been planning my future for a long time, a lot longer than we've known each other, whoever you are. I was planning to invest in a small vacation house in a desirable location and rent it out to vacationers when I was nine for instance.
She may be, or she may have a messy work schedule, and a messy family life, or maybe she's just plain awkward. Seriously, I do that to my friends a lot. A few seem kind of bothered by it, but most of them just know that's how I am, and a few are like me.
Have you offered her some gum first and chewed some yourself? I'm paranoid about kissing someone with either of us having bad breath, and I'm not the only one.
Possibly true. Possibly, you're bad at reading her.
Some people are into that. I'm not one of them, but if that's what makes you both happy, I'm not going to pass judgement.
Here's another clue-
She sends you this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4JHT-PI ... 7MiB6FDGta
Take out the pie and replace it with hole and then you'll be right.
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Hi guys,
first of all, I want to excuse me for my English, my level is lower and I'm trying to improve it.
I think that you are generalizing too much, every woman is different, and I suffer from many points that do you put, for example:
5. You don't know who her friends are.
I don't have friends and people when they known it looked at me weird, and I have felt always defective. I had a lots of couples that in the begining they looked to me weird too, but they were enough interest in me to didn't mind.
7. Shes really vague about planning to hangout.
I have problems all the time with that, my couples always said me that they have to make always the planning. but I feel completely null to plan any social plan.It didn't mean I don't want to be with him.
8. She touches her hair in short jerky motions.
I have very long hair and sometimes play with my hair without being aware (I do braids, I touch my hair ...), this means nothing.
10. She does not go out of her way to talk to you
Maybe it's shy? some people are not good at starting conversations.
12. She doesn't seem to care that much about your life.
ok, ok I had a lots of problem all my life with that. If you want to say something say it.
I do not understand because it is such a problem that I don't ask. there are moments that I can't take personal questions that I don't feel confortable to answer. If I need to say something and I feel confortable then I will say it.
ok I think is enough (I really can put a lot more of points but It's hard for me to express in english for the moment), you have taken the point, right? You can not generalize with people out there because there are some of them that break all the rules.
and you never know if the person for whom you feel attracted is more original than the rest.
Be happy boys...
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Your Aspie score is 193 of 200
Your neurotypical score is 40 of 200
You are very likely an aspie
No matter where I go I will always be a Gaijin even at home. Like Anime? https://kissanime.to/AnimeList
_________________
Your Aspie score is 193 of 200
Your neurotypical score is 40 of 200
You are very likely an aspie
No matter where I go I will always be a Gaijin even at home. Like Anime? https://kissanime.to/AnimeList
_________________
Your Aspie score is 193 of 200
Your neurotypical score is 40 of 200
You are very likely an aspie
No matter where I go I will always be a Gaijin even at home. Like Anime? https://kissanime.to/AnimeList
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