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27 Feb 2015, 3:20 pm

No, you should be locked up in jail. This behavior of yours is crazy.



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27 Feb 2015, 4:06 pm

What is a good reason to hug or cuddle? Or who to do it with?

For me it would be with someone I have feelings for but it often feels like most other people need less of a reason to touch eachother. If both parties have different motivations someone may get hurt.



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27 Feb 2015, 4:24 pm

ProfessorJohn wrote:
Luckily I didn't get the Aspie trait of not liking to be touched.
I don't like being touched by anyone but my girlfriend.


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27 Feb 2015, 7:05 pm

Yes. Now that I'm single again, I have extreme trouble sleeping without it/someone next to me at night. I have to listen to podcasts to keep my mind off of it.



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27 Feb 2015, 7:21 pm

I'd rather that a guy cuddles with his girlfriend than abuse her.


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28 Feb 2015, 7:24 am

I like cuddling to an extent. If it's too much, then I get annoyed and uncomfortable. I'm like a cat in that sense.



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28 Feb 2015, 10:59 am

I would like to cuddle with someone, but only in a comfortable temperature and regularly switching positions so limbs don't fall asleep :lol:



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02 Mar 2015, 12:43 am

downbutnotout wrote:
Plenty of guys enjoy cuddling. They can be romantic and sweet, too.
And purr and keep you warm when your cold?


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02 Mar 2015, 1:14 am

i need cuddles.

now.


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02 Mar 2015, 2:03 am

Kiprobalhato wrote:
i need cuddles.

now.
Awww...but im a dude so its kinda awkward on my part, I don't cuddle other dudes but I do understand.


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02 Mar 2015, 4:06 am

I don't think I've ever actually cuddled someone, but the idea sounds appealing.


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02 Mar 2015, 6:12 am

I personally enjoy it in moderation. I'm kinda like a cat you could say. Affection only when I want it. Used to drive my ex mad. But when I want to cuddle/affection, I want it really badly and put a lot of effort into it to make sure it's pleasurable for both involved. Then I'm usually good for a week or so. I need at least two days to recover afterwards. It's more emotionally draining, but very enjoyable.


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02 Mar 2015, 7:05 pm

I'd rather cuddle than have sex before I get married.



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07 Mar 2015, 6:45 pm

Cuddling is great! I'm glad that all of my past boyfriends/lovers have enjoyed cuddling or I would go crazy. I'm always cold so I use it as an excuse to get guys to cuddle with me. Falling asleep while cuddling with a guy is always enjoyable too.



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08 Mar 2015, 4:13 am

Einfari wrote:
Cuddling is great! I'm glad that all of my past boyfriends/lovers have enjoyed cuddling or I would go crazy. I'm always cold so I use it as an excuse to get guys to cuddle with me. Falling asleep while cuddling with a guy is always enjoyable too.
Would a cuddle followed by purring do? :oops: :oops:


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08 Mar 2015, 7:09 pm

Einfari wrote:
Cuddling is great! I'm glad that all of my past boyfriends/lovers have enjoyed cuddling or I would go crazy. I'm always cold so I use it as an excuse to get guys to cuddle with me. Falling asleep while cuddling with a guy is always enjoyable too.


wish I could cuddle with someone while falling to sleep.