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02 May 2015, 5:27 pm

I just wonder if that is serious advice or not, marrying a rich woman.....


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02 May 2015, 6:27 pm

Just message Fireflie, she's in her early 30s, single, and I heard she's into aspies as well. Assuming she's still around. Boo might have scared her off though. Heres a link to her profile. http://wrongplanet.net/author/fireflie/

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02 May 2015, 6:32 pm

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Listen equestriatola, you probably won't believe me but i'm from the year 2020 and you made a WP post about how you were engaged and just got married. I even saw the wedding photos. I think this was in the summer of 2020?

I'm here in 2015 only tonight and I just thought I should tell you this. You're going to find and meet the love of your life in LA. Trust me on this, you're going to meet her by pure chance.



Holy crap, my future self posted on WP. Hello from 2015, yes I still play Runescape.



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02 May 2015, 6:43 pm

^ XD A man can dream and hope. :D I am optimistic.


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06 May 2015, 9:54 am

Any other good advice for me here?


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06 May 2015, 10:40 am

equestriatola wrote:
Any other good advice for me here?

If I can figure relationships out, anybody can. Just be yourself above all else and look for someone who accepts you for you no matter how long it takes. If it is meant to be it will happen.



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06 May 2015, 3:00 pm

GiantHockeyFan wrote:
equestriatola wrote:
Any other good advice for me here?

If I can figure relationships out, anybody can. Just be yourself above all else and look for someone who accepts you for you no matter how long it takes. If it is meant to be it will happen.


I agree completely. If I could get married, anybody can. You do need to find someone who accepts you as you are. If you have to act a different way around that person, eventually the acting will have to come to an end.



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07 May 2015, 1:17 am

ProfessorJohn wrote:
GiantHockeyFan wrote:
equestriatola wrote:
Any other good advice for me here?

If I can figure relationships out, anybody can. Just be yourself above all else and look for someone who accepts you for you no matter how long it takes. If it is meant to be it will happen.


I agree completely. If I could get married, anybody can. You do need to find someone who accepts you as you are. If you have to act a different way around that person, eventually the acting will have to come to an end.


not if you never live together or let them come to your house.



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07 May 2015, 8:37 am

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not if you never live together or let them come to your house.

Kinda hard to maintain a relationship like that. Marriage implies sharing everything with your partner, including a home and a bed. Trust me, you CANNOT keep up a front if you wish to maintain any sort of mental health: I ended up with a major panic attack from trying to "act" for too long.



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07 May 2015, 5:57 pm

GiantHockeyFan wrote:
sly279 wrote:
not if you never live together or let them come to your house.

Kinda hard to maintain a relationship like that. Marriage implies sharing everything with your partner, including a home and a bed. Trust me, you CANNOT keep up a front if you wish to maintain any sort of mental health: I ended up with a major panic attack from trying to "act" for too long.


but I have so much wrong with me. :( have to hide it. or i'll never get a gf.



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07 May 2015, 6:00 pm

Now it's picnic season: No excuses, Sly!



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12 May 2015, 9:26 pm

I think I am going to get married in the year 2037, when I am 50. That is my guess.......


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12 May 2015, 9:38 pm

True love changes a person (in the right way.) And as others have said, that person will accept the real YOU, completely.

That doesn't mean that you won't have conflict. But you shouldn't be afraid to be yourself, ever.

If you meet the right person, you won't be asking yourself these questions anymore. One is willing to make personal sacrifices for the people one truly loves, whether a spouse or children.



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13 May 2015, 2:33 am

^ I've only just begun in my quest..... I am interested in two girls, I will say that right now.


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13 May 2015, 3:53 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Now it's picnic season: No excuses, Sly!

never been on a picnic. seems challenging.
not to mention there's no women take out if that was what you implying.

all that is left is to accept my fate.



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13 May 2015, 7:03 am

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If you meet the right person, you won't be asking yourself these questions anymore. One is willing to make personal sacrifices for the people one truly loves, whether a spouse or children.

That's probably the single best indicator of true love. After dating girl after girl who made it clear they were not planning on changing a thing, I have made plans to move 1km from my Girlfriends place. Its a far longer commute for work but it's a necessary step to build a life together.

I would have NEVER considered doing something like that until I met her.