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rdos
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24 May 2015, 3:49 am

Chronos wrote:
It appears you have formed these definitions from the perspective of a male who has difficulty dating.


I don't date as I'm married since long ago.

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As a female, my definition of an alpha girl would be a girl or woman who is popular, pretty, has her life together, and the type of women that models or actors would date.


There certainly is some kind of overlap. Being pretty is an easy road to getting spoiled, abusing dating, and not committing to anything, but it is not the only one. Besides, there are a few pretty women that are not spoiled like that, so it doesn't always lead to the Alpha female state.

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My definition of a nice girl/woman would be a girl or woman who has strong moral and ethical values, is loyal, and is unconcerned with the superficial aspects of life.


I can more or less agree with that one. However, then you need to redefine nice guy along similar lines to be consistent.



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24 May 2015, 3:25 pm

I think of the alpha female or male as one with a majority of power in the group/community.

I think of the nice female or male as passive in the group/community.


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01 Jun 2015, 12:36 pm

I would think an alpha girl is a popular girl. Such girls are probably generally bullies / mean girls. I imagine they are also generally spoiled girls that expects constant compliments and expensive presents and never commits to anything or anybody. Popular and powerful people can get away with anything in western culture, and with females its almost certainly worse. Rig currency markets and you get off with no jail time. Steal golf clubs and to an ass-slamming prison for a long time.


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