Plausible Aspie Girl Behavior?

Post Reply New Topic

I think she has commitment phobia. Why do I think so? Because usually, things gradually improve up to a certain point, and right when I start thinking "we're almost in a relationship now", she stops responding, and she writes me things like: "Oh, I didn't check my phone all week-end, didn't notice you tried to call me 3 times."

A few days ago, though, she replied really quickly when I hadn't messaged her all week.

I have a positive update: Last week-end, we exchanged a high number of e-mail messages. I think the key is to adapt to her pace. Right now, she is on the road, so we can't meet, but she said she will contact me if she has time. I must really resist my urge to call her now.