sly279 wrote:
why did you break up with him?
why do you care since you broke up.
O.o I don't get this. usually people break up because they don't like the person anymore so they don't care and go find a new person. Ive never been able to end a frienship. I've never had gf, had some close calls and they broke it off.
not trying to be mean I really just don't understand. o.O
Matters of the heart always seem to be messy and complicated. In my case, I do care about him. I care about what is best for him as well as myself. He doesn't want a relationship. We were friends with benefits, though he tells me that he doesn't think of it that way (still not entirely clear on what he thought it was). I told him that I knew if we continued to see each other that I would continually want more of a relationship than what he was comfortable with. I decided it would be best to discontinue our romance because what we wanted from one another was not the same. I love this man. If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was. He is not mine to love, he never was.