WHAT ARE YOUR DEAL BREAKERS WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS?

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Bitchiness for the sake of bitchiness.

Can't deal with girls that are too needy and text and call constantly and want to link up everyday

My list:

-Wants to date
-Has ghosted somebody
-Wants regular sex
-Has divorced without a damn good reason
-Has too many broken relationships

How would that work? Would you skip dating?

pretty much everything.
i can not tolerate company for more than about 4 hours no matter who it is.

Dealbreakers:

- Blaming bitchy behaviour on PMS. My previous experience with anabolic steroids indicate that very little can be blamed on hormonal fluctations

- Wanting a man to buy her clothes, give her a place to live and a car -- while she doesn't bring anything to the table herself

- Letting herself go

- Whining about trivial stuff

- Personality disorders (my ex was BPD... never again!)

- Being a 25+ "woman child", having no spare time hobbies beyond getting drunk in the weekends, having no serious ambitions, and having lots of credit card debt

- Not wanting to travel to any other places than Ayia Napa and Magaluf

- Not liking sex, but merely seeing it as something she trades for a relationship

- Not liking kids

- Not liking animals

- Being a fanatical atheist

I have a cat - Waldo.

I say religious or agnostic because I'm religious so atheist would be totally opposite of what I believe.

And divorced only once because I understand that some people may have married early in life and made a boo boo, but more than once and divorce is getting to be a habit for them, IMO.

I don't need any deal breakers---I am the deal breaker.

What does that mean?

What does that mean? Like with an example, please.

I had that problem with my Aspie friend, but that's because I like him and he makes me happy - I don't see it as needy (I hate that word). Is it because too much communication is too overwhelming for you?

What's "has ghosted" mean?

There are people who glory in being b*****s. They wake up determined to be a b***h. They go to sleep proud of their bitchy accomplishments.

They do this because they think the world's a cruel place--and they feel they need to join in on the "fun."

They believe anything positive which arises in life is somehow "false." They believe compliments are "false" and are motivated by some ulterior motive.

I've experienced this too many times. It's a "deal-breaker."

Exactly. If she insists on doing dating instead of flirting for a few months, then that is THE deal breaker.

Woah kraftie, is there someone who has been this person to you?

What's wrong with not smoking?



What's wrong with being agnostic?



What's wrong with making more?



What's wrong with not having kids?



What's wrong with not drinking and what's wrong with being a sociable person?



I think I can understand here.




My deal breakers are:

Poor money management
Homophobia
Racism
Very messy
Not wanting to work
Going silent on me and I never hear from them
Narcissistic behavior
Willful ignorance
Doesn't listen to me
Twisting what I say
Having to walk on eggshells because they seem to twist anything I say or get upset over anything I say
Always having tell their kid everything we talked about and telling others too and tell them what thing I did such as what I took literal
Get mad at me for my anxiety
Extremely obese
Judge AB/DL and think of them as sickos and pedophiles
Not want kids
Needy and clingy
Controlling
Very negative about me and think of me as slow and acting like I am low functioning
Procrastination, saying they will do something but then don't do it or say we are leaving but not leave
Can't keep their plans and follow through
Bad temper
An abuser
Not understand me
Not accept me
Makes me feel I have to change to satisfy them
Ignores me
Makes me feel I am single and not in a relationship
Worries too much what people think of them or what they might think
Wants a mommy and be a baby all the time